But if I dont engage Im kepping the money. No matter how mjch I need it I cant keep money given in those circs.
Like any of that's enough to fight the Dark Master. Bator.
Xander ,'Lessons'
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Typo Boy - Dec 21, 2014 12:37:25 pm PST #15080 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Connie Neil - Dec 21, 2014 12:57:31 pm PST #15081 of 30002
brillig
Why not just return the card?
Typo Boy - Dec 21, 2014 2:11:15 pm PST #15082 of 30002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Return the card with the cash? It was not mailed, thedy left it in cash on my screen door. I'm not sure mailing back cash is a good idea. (Obsiously by giving cash she is making it as awkward as possible to refuse.)
beekaytee - Dec 21, 2014 2:20:57 pm PST #15083 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant
Under these circumstances, I don't know that I would not think it the cash in the same way I do when I find a quarter on the ground (that was not obviously belonging to anyone around). I'd say thanks to the found money imp and move on.
The only way keeping the money would oblige you to interact with one or the other of them would be if you chose to do so.
Don't get me wrong, I've had more than my share of righteous indignation. And lord knows, I've made more than a few statement gestures. But, in this case, why not give yourself the opportunity to receive something without putting negative energy on it?
They dropped the cash...quite actually...in a physical sense...and you found it. Bonus!
Connie Neil - Dec 21, 2014 2:23:20 pm PST #15084 of 30002
brillig
Send them a money order.
Laura - Dec 21, 2014 2:51:05 pm PST #15085 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
I'd say thanks to the found money imp and move on.
I'd go with that one too. The annoyance she has inflicted upon you is worth that much. Doesn't mean you have to acknowledge it.
brenda m - Dec 21, 2014 2:58:33 pm PST #15086 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Donate it, and leave the original card with the donation receipt in their door.
brenda m - Dec 21, 2014 2:59:02 pm PST #15087 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Or what Laura said.
Ginger - Dec 21, 2014 2:59:06 pm PST #15088 of 30002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
Keep the money. Maybe she really does feel bad about the way she's behaved. The money is a gift; you have no obligation to change your relationship with her.
erikaj - Dec 21, 2014 3:37:33 pm PST #15089 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!
If you need it, keep it. Although I'm sure telling her to choke on it would be gratifying, sounds like you can't afford to.