So. Um. OK Cupid guy asked if we can consider ourselves "official," and I said yes. So we're official, whatever that means. (And I asked him not to mention it on facebook for now, because of my mother asking questions that I don't feel like dealing with. I'm figuring, if we're still seeing each other once we get to winter break, I'll tell her then. I should probably tell him that, so he doesn't think this is indefinitely facebook-secret.)
Do you see any goats around? No, because I sacrificed them.
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Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Hil R. - Nov 16, 2014 10:13:23 am PST #14400 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
Steph L. - Nov 16, 2014 10:18:52 am PST #14401 of 30002
I look more rad than Lutheranism
That sounds like a good thing, Hil. Yay!
lisah - Nov 16, 2014 10:29:38 am PST #14402 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate
That's great, Hil!!! And, yeah, letting him know why you don't make it "FB official" yet is probably a good idea.
Hil R. - Nov 16, 2014 11:55:12 am PST #14403 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
Thanks, guys.
I just sent him a message explaining a bit more why I didn't want to tell my mom yet. I realized that I'd phrased it last night as "I don't want to tell my mom," rather than "I don't want to tell my mom yet," and that "yet" is kind of needed -- it's not like I'm planning on hiding it from her forever. Just that I kind of want to process things in my own brain, which will take a little bit of time, before I'm ready to start answering the million questions she's going to ask.
meara - Nov 16, 2014 1:01:32 pm PST #14404 of 30002
That's awesome, Hil! And good to clarify, indeed, that it's a "yet" and a "my own issues" and not a "never" and "don't want to introduce you to my mom" kind of thing.
JenP - Nov 16, 2014 1:29:48 pm PST #14405 of 30002
That's awesome, Hil!
Burrell - Nov 16, 2014 1:44:00 pm PST #14406 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Glad to hear it's all going so well, Hil
beth b - Nov 16, 2014 2:03:04 pm PST #14407 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
yay! I'm glad you found someone nice
beth b - Nov 16, 2014 2:03:05 pm PST #14408 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
yay! I'm glad you found someone nice
I didn't mean to say it twice, but why not
Zenkitty - Nov 16, 2014 2:03:10 pm PST #14409 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Hil, that's great!