Ugh, Strix. I'm sorry the situation is so awful.
I do not understand people in anyway. My hairdresser offered to meet me at TJ's after she was done with her last client. She said she would text me when she was done and was expecting to take about 45 minutes. An hour and a half later nothing an she is not responding to my text.
She actually called me, and I Zen breathed my way through a fairly reasonable conversation. I think she knows she can't talk to me the way she talks to Dan.
I'm calmer now.
Good for you, Strix. I'm glad she knows she can't talk to you that way.
I have spent too much money at TJ's and am home now. Still no word from hairdresser. Next time I see her she'll have a perfectly reasonable excuse, which I know because this is not the first time she has blown me off. This is all playing nicely with the complete self loathing thing I have going on right now.
Just now (3 1/2 hours later) she texted me to say that she was sorry and forgot to text me that she was stuck at the salon earlier. I'll shut up about this now. Sorry to be whiny.
Thanks, Dana. I told her to let me know if she wants to get coffee next week. So, the ball is in her court.
sj, you're not being whiny, that is maddening. My sister did the same thing to me last Saturday. Infuriating. I just have to work around it because she does it all the dang time.
swallowed something and it was square and white and shaped like a tooth?
I remember that! But no, not my boy. Maybe Cindy's?