God DAMN, that is loathesome. I'm so sorry. You didn't need that on top of your own shock and grief and complicated emotions. I hope reading the autopsy will put your mind 100% at ease.
Now, I can hold a note for a long time...actually I can hold a note forever. But eventually that's just noise. It's the change we're listening for. The note coming after, and the one after that. That's what makes it music.
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Steph L. - Oct 23, 2014 6:56:22 am PDT #13939 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Connie Neil - Oct 23, 2014 7:05:58 am PDT #13940 of 30002
brillig
They sound like people who always assume events are someone's fault, and since it would never be theirfault, and Rob's not there to blame, you were the natural candidate. They're also scum for managing to fling enough of that swill around that a speck managed to stick. Scrape it off as quickly as possible.
msbelle - Oct 23, 2014 7:11:22 am PDT #13941 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
Oh we hates them. Hugs and love and wine and more hugs, my dear.
Zenkitty - Oct 23, 2014 7:26:36 am PDT #13942 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Yeah, Maria, fuck that and fuck them, his death is not your fault. What awful people. I'm glad you're rid of them, and I hope you never have to deal with them again.
sj - Oct 23, 2014 7:29:46 am PDT #13943 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Maria, I'm so glad those horrible people are out of your life. They don't deserve you. I hope the autopsy report brings you some peace.
Maria - Oct 23, 2014 7:31:48 am PDT #13944 of 30002
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
From your lips to God's ear.
I haven't really thought about them since I moved. I have been thinking about Rob often. It's more nostalgia than anything. And good things are happening. I'm seeing someone who is pretty awesome, and gets all of this. He's an EMT and I met him at the restaurant.
Connie Neil - Oct 23, 2014 7:34:53 am PDT #13945 of 30002
brillig
The wife of a young friend of ours died in her sleep a year ago. He was in the living room, he heard her roll over, and he didn't realize what had happened until he went to bed several hours later. She had several congenital things wrong with her, and all they could figure out was her heart shifted wrong and simply stopped. It was tailor-made for bad accusations, but there was the long history of health issues. People are a hell of a lot more fragile than you'd think.
sj - Oct 23, 2014 7:36:16 am PDT #13946 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Yay for good things, Maria!
Connie Neil - Oct 23, 2014 7:37:07 am PDT #13947 of 30002
brillig
I'm seeing someone who is pretty awesome, and gets all of this.
Oh, blessed be. May I ask, how old are you? I've pretty much shrugged off the idea of anyone new, unless the universe is pretty set on the point and shoves someone my way. I met Hubby when I literally tripped over him at an SCA event, so one never knows.
Hil R. - Oct 23, 2014 7:37:24 am PDT #13948 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
Maria, I'm glad you don't have to deal with those people anymore.
In other randomness, I'm kind of boggling at an OK Cupid profile that includes this: "Im a mensa certified genuis. Im very ambitious which makes me misunderstood alot and is probably why I am single." It's actually one of several misunderstood genius profiles I've seen. But this one is special for the spelling and punctuation.