Wild monkey love or tender Sarah McLachlan love?

Xander ,'Him'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


brenda m - Oct 22, 2014 7:06:19 am PDT #13877 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

My sisters.


Laura - Oct 22, 2014 7:48:11 am PDT #13878 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

How dare you enjoy things!

Gives stern look to the part of your brain that says not to enjoy. Everyone that loves you, here or gone, wants you to have a full and happy life. Celebrate and be grateful when you catch yourself having good moments.

My sisters! Feral or not! I never wear makeup, don't even own any, but I do love my shiny nails. If I lived somewhere that wasn't hot and humid I might consider makeup (probably not), but I just can't imagine not being able to take a cool cloth at any moment and wiping my face. There is rarely a day I don't take a paper towel or napkin to pat off sweat from my face.


Calli - Oct 22, 2014 8:08:28 am PDT #13879 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'll be happy to join the feral pack or pride, as it may be. I wore lipstick for my job interviews and it drove me nuts. And it was the Burts Bees lightly tinted lipbalm version.

It's a gorgeous day here, and I really wish my mood matched it. The whole continued unemployment thing is starting to wear. I won't hear one way or another from my two recent f2f interviews until the first week of November, at the earliest. There are a dozen or so applications out that are still well within the window of possibility, but until they contact me that's pretty moot (I've made follow-up contacts where possible). I'm feeling a bit down about it all.

Oh well. After my hair dries I'll go for a walk. And if that doesn't help my mood, maybe I'll drive to the ice-cream store that's out in the country, where I can sit on the porch and watch the cows on the hills across the way.


Toddson - Oct 22, 2014 8:17:48 am PDT #13880 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I will confess to wearing makeup. And scent. And doing my nails. BUT! if you brush your teeth and comb your hair you're not feral! I think feral would involve a full-time, full-body mud mask.


WindSparrow - Oct 22, 2014 8:24:44 am PDT #13881 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Dear Connie's subconscious:

Knock it off. Yes, life is sorrow, pain and woe. But it is also joy and love and happiness. Each in its measure is the best way.

Lots of love because you are part of Connie, Me.

P.S. You are supposed to be part of a survival mechanism. Don't make me come over there and explain how short and brutal life is without things like pleasure and fun and laughter.


WindSparrow - Oct 22, 2014 8:32:18 am PDT #13882 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I'm ignoring the dental talk because I'm in denial about needing to go, myself.

Also I'm a little flighty with needing to distract myself today. Sammie went to the vet's for annual shots and exam. At 13 she was due for a senior panel blood draw. Nifty on-site lab came back fast with everything but one in the normal range (Thyroid test goes to an outside lab so it'll be a few days on that). Her creatinine is just a smidge above the border of normal. So they want to do a UA to see how the urine is concentrating. There is a good possibility that Sammie is just fine, and really, I think worst case scenario is that she is at the beginning of chronic renal failure, caught early enough that with care and treatment, she still has a number of good years. But... sitting here worrying is what I'm trying not to do.


Connie Neil - Oct 22, 2014 8:34:29 am PDT #13883 of 30002
brillig

I'm so glad you people are around.

I'm running visualizations like Awkward Yeti, with Heart bouncing around after butterflies and occasionally running into Grief, a quiet shrouded figure who makes every room a little bleaker. But the butterfly is still fluttering around, catching Heart's eye. (And poor Gallbladder needs a hug and someone to appreciate the stones he makes)


beekaytee - Oct 22, 2014 8:37:57 am PDT #13884 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Gives stern look to the part of your brain that says not to enjoy. Everyone that loves you, here or gone, wants you to have a full and happy life. Celebrate and be grateful when you catch yourself having good moments.

I just felt the need to boost the signal on Laura's wisdom.


beekaytee - Oct 22, 2014 8:43:24 am PDT #13885 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Let me ask a reality check question...

If you had a major rat infestation in you house. So major as to be visible without actually having to look for it...and you had two 180lb Great Danes...would you leave on a European vacation and expect your dog walker to deal with it?

When informed that the exterminator you requested your dog walker deal with says that there is risk of Huntavirus...and you VET says that he fears Leptospirosis...both of which are potentially lethal to humans and dogs...would you ask your dog walker to 'just throw out the dead rats the exterminator traps?

Yeah. I didn't think so.

The owner says taking the dogs for medical boarding is 'not optimal' and they apparently have no one else to help.

The hammer of common sense has fallen from my hand, right onto her head, via text.

Nope. Nopety, nope.

Either I hear from her by COB or I'm renting a car and driving them to the hospital myself. After I don a mask and gloves, that is. I think I even have an old pair of shoes I can throw away right after.

PEOPLE.


Toddson - Oct 22, 2014 8:57:48 am PDT #13886 of 30002
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

ICK

No, your rats are your problem (and the exterminator's). NOT the dog walker's.

I repeat: ICK.