You know, I just... I woke up, and I looked in the mirror, and I thought, hey, what's with all the sin? I need to change. I'm... I'm dirty. I'm, I'm bad with the... sex and the envy and that, that loud music us kids listen to nowadays.

Buffy ,'Lessons'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Connie Neil - Jul 07, 2014 3:42:04 pm PDT #12010 of 30002
brillig

Nodding Plastic Phil is surprisingly comforting.

edit: The scene in Captain America where Sam is working with the support group was soothing as well. It may be fictional, but that doesn't make it less true.


smonster - Jul 07, 2014 3:45:43 pm PDT #12011 of 30002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Coming in late to add my condolences and send my love. This virtual but very real place is a magical space, in the best sense of the word. I have marked several posts full of wisdom for when I and others need them.

Brackets to all who need and want them. Connie, your posts are full of a heavy grace. I am so sorry for the loss of your marvelous Viking. Peace to you and all who loved him.


Laura - Jul 07, 2014 4:14:48 pm PDT #12012 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Connie, there is no right. There is no normal. Like David, I did physical things for distraction. Very long walks on the beach with my doberman. Also, being the practical person that I apparently am, I would cry in the shower. I'd only have to let my mind go there, and the floodgates would open where it was more convenient. I thought it might lesson the need to sob elsewhere.


erikaj - Jul 07, 2014 6:08:34 pm PDT #12013 of 30002
Always Anti-fascist!

Somebody sent me a blank tweet today. Is he flouncing, or what?


beth b - Jul 07, 2014 7:27:41 pm PDT #12014 of 30002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'm a shower cryer too. I'm guessing it will come and go - like waves, but maybe not so regular. I think doing stuff -work, walks , rereading, having favorite movies around, etc make sense.

I'm glad work made sense while you were there today


WindSparrow - Jul 07, 2014 8:00:34 pm PDT #12015 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Somebody sent me a blank tweet today. Is he flouncing, or what?

I can't speak for anyone else but I occassionally hit tweet instead of cancel without realizing it. And then half the time I forget I can delete tweets.


Hil R. - Jul 08, 2014 6:56:27 am PDT #12016 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

My mother is weird. Last week, I posted on facebook that, with the amount of Benadryl, Sudafed, and Mucinex I was taking, watching My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic seemed like a good idea. I just got a package from Amazon. My mom sent me some My Little Pony figures.


Laura - Jul 08, 2014 8:48:13 am PDT #12017 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Ha! That is hysterical! I think I love Hil!Mom.


sj - Jul 08, 2014 8:49:22 am PDT #12018 of 30002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm home from the procedure. I'm exhausted, but not in a lot of pain.


SuziQ - Jul 08, 2014 9:23:11 am PDT #12019 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Rest and be gentle with yourself.