Now, I can hold a note for a long time...actually I can hold a note forever. But eventually that's just noise. It's the change we're listening for. The note coming after, and the one after that. That's what makes it music.

Host ,'Why We Fight'


Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erin_obscure - Jul 03, 2014 11:31:58 pm PDT #11875 of 30002
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Oh Connie, I'm so very sorry. While I never met your DH (or you, even) IRL it feels like the world has suffered a great loss. A candle burns in this home for his passing.


hippocampus - Jul 03, 2014 11:49:34 pm PDT #11876 of 30002
not your mom's socks.

Connie, I'm so very sorry.


omnis_audis - Jul 04, 2014 12:06:41 am PDT #11877 of 30002
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Connie, I'm sorry for your loss. Nothing I try to type seems to be enough. As Maria says, we are here for you, we are your strength. Tons of ~ma for you.


Kate P. - Jul 04, 2014 2:08:28 am PDT #11878 of 30002
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Oh Connie, I'm so, so sorry. It's good that you were there with him at the end; I hope you can find some comfort in that. Lean on us as much as you need to. Sending you love and strength.


Calli - Jul 04, 2014 2:38:03 am PDT #11879 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm so sorry, Connie.


amych - Jul 04, 2014 2:50:30 am PDT #11880 of 30002
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Oh, Connie. Not enough words in the world to say how sorry I am.


Anne W. - Jul 04, 2014 3:39:16 am PDT #11881 of 30002
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Connie, I am so very, very sorry.


beekaytee - Jul 04, 2014 4:18:19 am PDT #11882 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Connie, the image of your N carrying Thor's hammer into the next life makes me smile just a little bit through the many tears I am shedding for you now.

His effort was valiant and your heart is true. There can be no more noble parting.

I am just so, so sorry for the sadness you bear.

Your courage matched his and I imagine him saying 'Thank you, my Love. Now, I can stand up-right, at your shoulder, always.'


Liese S. - Jul 04, 2014 4:19:14 am PDT #11883 of 30002
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Oh no, Connie.


Amy - Jul 04, 2014 5:09:48 am PDT #11884 of 30002
Because books.

I'm so sorry, Connie. Sending you peace and strength.