If she really does have some disorder, I don't know that there is anything anyone can do, but I'm hoping that his knowing will not make it even bigger in her head.
My struggle is to not fret about another shoe dropping.
Urgh.
All right, yes, date and shop and hang out and go to school and save the world from unspeakable demons. You know, I wanna do girlie stuff!
Buffy ,'Same Time, Same Place'
Spike's Bitches 48: I Say, We Go Out There, and Kick a Little Demon Ass.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
beekaytee - Apr 29, 2014 5:44:44 pm PDT #10670 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant
le nubian - Apr 29, 2014 6:10:41 pm PDT #10671 of 30002
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
thank you for the pics of the beautiful buffista babies.
happy birthday to all!
billytea - Apr 30, 2014 6:14:30 am PDT #10672 of 30002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.
Thanks, everyone! We have a happy little boy now in possession of swag and a banana cake.
His father is less happy, as I arrived home to discover that my dad (or more precisely, his wife) had sent Ryan a birthday present. No note, no card, no explanation. He's made no contact and sent no communication since I returned the Christmas present. I just don't know what the hell is even going through his mind at this point.
More pleasantly, Ryan got a birthday balloon from the teacher today, and everyone at chapel wished him a happy birthday. He's a bit of an attention hound, is this boy.
Laura - Apr 30, 2014 7:24:24 am PDT #10673 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
I'm sorry bt, that is difficult. May the giggling happiness of the birthday boy sooth and comfort.
Tom Scola - Apr 30, 2014 8:22:31 am PDT #10674 of 30002
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.
Is Jilli still looking for work? [link]
Beverly - Apr 30, 2014 8:29:54 am PDT #10675 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
bt, belated Happy Birthday to Ryan! What a spectacular person he's becoming.
And I'm sorry about the urky family stuff. Been there, it's difficult, I know. But take heart in your terrific little guy and how great his worldview is--you and Biyi did that.
Atropa - Apr 30, 2014 8:42:21 am PDT #10676 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
I am still looking for work, but I have no experience working with cart software. USING cart software, yes, that's shopping. But the back end? Sadly, no.
amych - Apr 30, 2014 8:52:07 am PDT #10677 of 30002
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?
Don't sell yourself short, Jilli -- they're not talking about programming cart software, they're talking about posting new items, which (without knowing the details of whatever they use) is like posting a blog post compared to reading one.
(Also noting the interesting fact that women tend not to apply for jobs unless they feel fully qualified for every bullet point, whereas men tend to apply if they're vaguely in the neighborhood of any of them.)
beekaytee - Apr 30, 2014 9:07:21 am PDT #10678 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant
I am so with amych on this.
Whenever I do career counseling with women, I have to push to convince them to go for positions that they can grow into, rather than automatically master.
In truth, jobs change so often, a static job description is unlikely to cover all one entails anyway.
If 80% seems doable/enjoyable, go for it!
P.M. Marc - Apr 30, 2014 9:37:34 am PDT #10679 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Whenever I do career counseling with women, I have to push to convince them to go for positions that they can grow into, rather than automatically master.
How do they get past the autoreject emails without lying on their resumes?