I don't know about you guys, but I've had it with super-strong little women who aren't me.

Buffy ,'Get It Done'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Consuela - Dec 04, 2012 2:01:42 pm PST #3198 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

It just seems like if they hired a veteran, that due to the vet's total lack of qualifications, they'd be firing the vet and begging you to come back inside of 2 months.

Hardly anyone ever gets fired in the federal government. And the veterans aren't supposed to make the list if they're completely unqualified. So this person is likely an environmental engineer or someone with some hazardous waste background who can pass as an environmental protection specialist (and likely to be appalled by the amount of non-environmental work I actually do).

My one hope is that they tell the vet they're not paying relocation expenses, or something like that, and they remove themselves from consideration.


Burrell - Dec 04, 2012 2:19:49 pm PST #3199 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Ugh Suela, your work situation has been such a clusterfuck of wrongness for so long, and you've endured it with such grace. I don't know why they aren't bending over backwards trying to fix it for you. Also what ita said about life backing off about now.


Burrell - Dec 04, 2012 2:22:58 pm PST #3200 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I'm sure you've been playing out various scenarios in your head, Suela. Has your boss given you an honest answer about what happens to your position if someone else gets hired to do the job?


Jesse - Dec 04, 2012 2:57:26 pm PST #3201 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Dag, Suela. If I were you, I would totally be pricing one-way tickets to Bora Bora at this point.


msbelle - Dec 04, 2012 2:59:54 pm PST #3202 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

seriously.

Somewhere nearby is doing fireworks. why? no idea.


Consuela - Dec 04, 2012 3:00:36 pm PST #3203 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Has your boss given you an honest answer about what happens to your position if someone else gets hired to do the job?

Nope. I am not sticking around, though. I have some pride, after all.


SuziQ - Dec 04, 2012 3:16:35 pm PST #3204 of 30001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Consuela, I can't even. You know, we probably have jobs for you at my company...

I had a total melt down. I went to the oncologist to get my blood drawn for an iron level check. They were running WAY behind so I spent a while in the waiting room. All the other folks waiting were pairs of women, one old and in rough shape, the other her care giver. My brain first went to- for all my mom went through, at least she never hit that level of frailty. Then it just flipped to full on missing my mom.

So, finally get blood drawn, I'm late for karate and traffic back was horrible. I got to the dojo, didn't even put on my gi, just went to the back to talk to my sensei and I turned into a teary puddle in her arms.

I think it is the combo of the domestic drama here, my BFF's messy family, worrying about the anemia, and missing my mom all slamming together at once. If the dojo hadn't been full of little kids, I'd have asked about staying, putting on my bag gloves, and punching/kicking the dummy. Maybe I'll do that tomorrow when the dojo is quieter.


Consuela - Dec 04, 2012 3:17:39 pm PST #3205 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Oh, honey, I'm sorry Suzi.

In a few minutes I'm off to visit my folks and let them know we're bringing in a companion for Mom tomorrow. That'll be... interesting.


le nubian - Dec 04, 2012 3:18:44 pm PST #3206 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Under the best of circumstances, doctor's offices have me this close to a meltdown so (hugs) for you.

I have white coat hypertension to prove it.


Jesse - Dec 04, 2012 3:26:50 pm PST #3207 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Aw, Suzi. Sometimes you just need to break down for a bit.