On my seventh birthday, I wanted a toy fire truck, and I didn't get it, and you were real nice about it, and then the house next door burnt down, and then real firetrucks came, and for years I thought you set the fire for me. And if you did, you can tell me!

Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Kat - Jul 02, 2013 8:38:35 am PDT #27896 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Random question:

The french bakery near me has a sandwich board out front heralding, "iced cold drinks" which looks weird. Should it be "ice-cold drinks"? Do they mean the same thing or is their a nuance I'm missing?

I think it's always iced tea, right?


Sue - Jul 02, 2013 8:39:29 am PDT #27897 of 30001
hip deep in pie

That's really interesting Kat. I've developed a good habit of walking home from work and taking longer walks (around 10 KM) on the weekend over the last year. It's good exercise and great for stress. It had gotten to the point where I was anxious if I couldn't walk home or go for a walk on the weekend.

Lately the weather has been crap and I've had other commitments after work the last few weeks, so I feel myself slipping and getting lazy. This weekend I didn't go for a walk at all. I had a serious case of the "I don't wannas". And I know I have to be more vigilant. Rewards may be a good idea.


Kat - Jul 02, 2013 8:46:07 am PDT #27898 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Sue, the book is really great. It talks about how we establish habits (cue - routine - reward). My cue that I'm trying to change is feeling tired or stressed. I want my routine to be go to the gym, instead of sitting on the couch and the reward has to be big enough to override my usual reward of wasting time on the internet.

The book is great because it's not really self help-y, though there is plenty of food for thought. It just looks at some of the pscyh research around habits, individually, institutionally and communally.


Steph L. - Jul 02, 2013 8:46:34 am PDT #27899 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I think it's always iced tea, right?

It's always *supposed* to be "iced tea," but I fear that ship has sailed. t /inordinately bitter about "ice tea"


Kat - Jul 02, 2013 8:47:24 am PDT #27900 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

I mean, ice tea is totally different than iced tea. Iced tea is tea which has ice. Ice tea is like a whole different flavor.


Dana - Jul 02, 2013 8:47:26 am PDT #27901 of 30001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I have a hair question.

When we moved down here, and I needed a haircut, I looked at reviews on Yelp and went to a nearby place. I told her that I wanted the layers in my hair cleaned up, and my one request was that the pieces on either side of my face not be cut so short that they fell out of a ponytail.

I really liked the finished haircut, except -- it's at least three weeks later, and those pieces are *still* too short to stay in the ponytail.

Should I give her another chance or find a different stylist?


shrift - Jul 02, 2013 8:48:11 am PDT #27902 of 30001
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

My current pet peeve is people who IM you with "hi" or whatever and don't tell me what they want until I respond.

All of the personality tests I've taken at work put me in the "wildly impatient for you to get to the point" corner. Which puts me at odds with people who approach everything with their feelings and their small talk.

A few times this week I've answered "How are you?" with "Full of feminist rage, you?"

God, yeah. I'm the Hulk all the time now.


§ ita § - Jul 02, 2013 8:49:35 am PDT #27903 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I've managed to instil a drawing habit that results in anxiety when I can't indulge too, Sue. I need to stop getting obsessed with publishing pictures, though. That's not the point.

I'm using the art store gift cards to buy different art materials from the things I normally use. We'll see. I'm not very good with breaking patterns.

Sadly the art course I am taking is not what I wanted. Yes, I underestimated the amount of time required, but it is kinda random and less than half the things they settle on are of particular interest. I don't know if I have better general knowledge now, but I will keep accumulating.

The french bakery near me has a sandwich board out front heralding, "iced cold drinks" which looks weird. Should it be "ice-cold drinks"? Do they mean the same thing or is their a nuance I'm missing?

I think you can have iced drinks, so you can (and probably will unless extreme circumstances) will have iced cold drinks. It's not much extra information for the extra word, but it seems accurate.

I can't believe I slept without socks last night. First time this year.

I'm going to put socks on now, though. Chilly toes.

I thought I knew which of two t shirts I was going to wear tomorrow--either the Winchester Hell & Back Tour or Greendale Community College. But I just found my Get In Touch With Your Feminine Side WTA shirt, and...I get one t shirt to wear to work a year! I don't know what's most important! Well, okay, I know none of it is important, but I'm still me.

Trying to work out what low glycemic snacking looks like. Fuck, pistachios are work--is that part of the angle? At least they sell unsalted. Why bother salting them? They're no tastier...aw, you people are weird anyway.

Oh, and Wordnik is wrong to be case sensitive. I think it's more harm than use.


javachik - Jul 02, 2013 8:51:55 am PDT #27904 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

I love that you're using the certs to buy new and different things, ita!


Steph L. - Jul 02, 2013 8:52:58 am PDT #27905 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I've managed to instil a drawing habit that results in anxiety when I can't indulge too, Sue.

Truth: the Unfuck Your Habitat blog got me making the bed every morning, and it stone cold freaks my shit out if I don't have time to make it before I leave the house.

Fuck, pistachios are work--is that part of the angle?

I know that at least TJs sells bags of shelled pistachios, which is made of awesome.