I'll be fine. I'll be your bounty, Jubal Early. And I'll just fade away.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sheryl - Jun 18, 2013 1:46:15 pm PDT #26267 of 30001
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Houseguests have arrived. We are waiting for Gary to get home so we can go to dinner.


Calli - Jun 18, 2013 1:54:35 pm PDT #26268 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I've been meaning to check out this [link]

It looks like it could have a good, sciency approach to cooking.


-t - Jun 18, 2013 2:05:57 pm PDT #26269 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, yes, I t heart Ratio! It's science-y and creatively empowering.

Day 2 as a permanent employee: met the big boss (well, a big boss, there are people above her but she's over everyone else who is usually in the building) and got generally announced as a new member of the team (and welcomed by various employees, which was nice) over e-mail.

Still looking forward to: getting my real employee badge instead of the Visitors Pass I'm still using, an ergonomic audit of my workstation, and I think some changes to my IT access. Will this all get done before I go on vacation? Maybe.


Juliebird - Jun 18, 2013 2:49:22 pm PDT #26270 of 30001
I am the fly who dreams of the spider

aurelia - Jun 18, 2013 3:03:12 pm PDT #26271 of 30001
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Tap. Dancing. Monkeys.

Jungle Book, day four.


Steph L. - Jun 18, 2013 3:06:35 pm PDT #26272 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Tomorrow I'm going to start treating the intern like she has some form of Asperger's.

I understand you're frustrated having to oversee an intern who is difficult to work with -- it sounds maddening, and I sympathize.

But what you're saying here is fairly offensive, both to people with Asperger's, and to the intern.


Juliebird - Jun 18, 2013 3:15:38 pm PDT #26273 of 30001
I am the fly who dreams of the spider

I don't know how to express it or explain it or ask for advice without further inserting my foot into my mouth. But, redacted.


Steph L. - Jun 18, 2013 3:28:16 pm PDT #26274 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Address the intern's behavior very specifically -- what she does, versus what is expected. You mentioned that a previous intern was "suspected" of having Asperger's. But absent a diagnosis, and with a pattern of 2 (not a huge pattern, but 2 makes it less random), I'm wondering how the intern position is described/advertised. Are these interns not adequately prepared for the position because they don't know fully what it entails?

I guess that might be step 1 -- how thoroughly was/is the position explained to prospective interns? If it's not explained thoroughly, it sounds like it's time to back up and explain the expectations of position to the intern.

If it was explained thoroughly, then you're back to just addressing her behavior, rather than trying to pin it on a diagnosis.


Jesse - Jun 18, 2013 3:33:31 pm PDT #26275 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Also, assuming interns are people without (much) job experience, they may just have to learn how to have a job, which is what they are really there for, as much as to do the work you need doing. I hired a really smart young woman into her first office job, and she really needed to be taught how to be in an office, because she just didn't know.


-t - Jun 18, 2013 3:50:45 pm PDT #26276 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I was already planning on having teak for dinner, but now I'm going to try tommyrot's salt 45 minutes before frying technique. I've never put a lot of effort into my steaks - a cheap cut indifferently cooked is still pretty tasty to me.

I seem to have signed up to donate platelets this Sunday. We'll see how that goes, I guess.