Like any of that's enough to fight the Dark Master. Bator.

Xander ,'Lessons'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - May 17, 2013 7:25:10 am PDT #22714 of 30001

ayor of DC TORONTO caught on tape smoking crack. [link] No word on whether the bitch set him up.

Hahahah! Oh, from everything my Toronto friends have said they will be very glad to laugh and point. The question is, can he, like Marion Berry, because Mayor4Life?!


Sue - May 17, 2013 7:26:20 am PDT #22715 of 30001
hip deep in pie

Steph, Rookie is hiring an editor. [link]


Consuela - May 17, 2013 7:43:03 am PDT #22716 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

So my brother shows up last night and the three of us are up until 2AM talking about (mostly) what do about Mom. (And drinking good wine.)

I sleep late, am puttering about the house planning all the shit I have to do today, and just as I'm finishing my breakfast my sister calls: the folks at the facility want to take Mom to the ER again. Which is not even 48 hours since the last trip to the ER.

Off we go again.


Kate P. - May 17, 2013 8:03:00 am PDT #22717 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Oh, 'Suela. Is this your brother the doctor who's visiting? Do you think any of you can push back against more ER visits?

That GeoGuessr game is SO much fun! I got 13,140 on my first game, and will probably play all through lunch. It's giving me a severe case of wanderlust, too.


§ ita § - May 17, 2013 8:24:29 am PDT #22718 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

It's weird--I've seen people I know from somewhere else reblog provocateuse tumblr posts, and they don't know it's me. Now the most prolific reblogger on my dash who I don't know at all has reblogged one--I'm just staring at the post on my dash wondering how it got there looking like that.

Trying to and failing at not having each of: anxiety attack/migraine/eyelid twitch.


Zenkitty - May 17, 2013 8:27:52 am PDT #22719 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Consuela, my mom had vascular dementia, too, and everything you're reporting is just like what she went through, minus the loyal husband. I'm reliving it, a bit, as I read your posts (not that you shouldn't post!). I feel bad that I'm not chiming in with words of encouragement, but all I can say is, it'll pass. Of course her progress through the disease won't exactly mirror my mom's, but the stages are common to all who suffer it, and it's all transient. One stage may seem to last a long time, and you'll think this is how it's gonna be, and then it changes. There are drugs that can slow down the rate of the strokes, but after a while we stopped giving them to mom, because it was pointless. We always want to fight against the inevitable, and sometimes the best thing for everyone is to let it happen as it happens. Your brother-the-doctor has probably said the same things our doctors said. If there were a way to make her better, to bring her back, that would be different, but there isn't. Comfort and safety is the only priority now. I'm so so sorry you're all going through this; it's horrible and heartbreaking, and I wish I had some comforting wise thing to say, but all I've got is, it'll pass. And don't be angry with yourself. That's important too.


Amy - May 17, 2013 8:34:06 am PDT #22720 of 30001
Because books.

The people at the ALF really need to chill, Consuela. I'm so sorry about another ER visit, but it sounds like you had a good time with your siblings last night.

Trying to and failing at not having each of: anxiety attack/migraine/eyelid twitch.

You're having a very stressful day. Tea?


Fred Pete - May 17, 2013 8:50:31 am PDT #22721 of 30001
Ann, that's a ferret.

Best comfort wishes, Suela. And enough good wine without having too much.


Steph L. - May 17, 2013 9:10:35 am PDT #22722 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

On the GeoGuessr, are people looking for landmarks/signs/whatever and then googling? Because that's all I can figure to do. (Except for one slightly blurry rural vista that I just went "That seems Ohio-ish," and I'll be damned -- it was indeed northwestern Ohio.)


Steph L. - May 17, 2013 9:13:14 am PDT #22723 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

One of my vistas showed a school field trip, with all the kids holding a string to keep them in line, in Andalusia, Spain. And then a picture of that field trip turned up on Picasa: [link]