Timelies all!
I'm sorry, Suela.
Great news about your mom, Dana.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Timelies all!
I'm sorry, Suela.
Great news about your mom, Dana.
Yeah, I absolutely agree with ND here. Expertise, work ethic, competency...those have actual, honest to goodness, monetary value. Then there's the market. Not to be all capitalist on anybody, 'cause all y'all know I ain't, but there is a price the market will bear, and if that is so, you should be able to charge that price for your services. Your services are not somehow not worth what you can charge for them.
a wasp flew in my office and flew up to the ceiling corner. I cut off the light, closed the blinds, opened my hall door wider hoping the thing would fly into the hall!
After 2 tense minutes, it found its way out! YAY.
See, in that situation I would have spritzed it with household cleaner and then stepped on it when it fell to the floor. Wasps get no mercy from me, though I've gone to ridiculous lengths to get a trapped bee back outside.
The moral of this story is that maybe if wasps were less stingy and more with the pollinating and providing honey, they'd get treated better.
Yay mom-of-Dana!
Consula, I'm sorry about your mom's possible stroke and associated doctor disagreements.
The wasp was up at the ceiling and my ceilings are probably 10-15 high. I couldn't get it to hit it. I prefer that such things fly out of my space if I can help it.
Ah, yeah, that's way too high unless you have one of those long distance hornet killer cans.
I think what I need is to firm up what my baseline charge is. So I can spout it off without hesitation or guilt. The woman that I did flowers for, when I tried to discuss rates, rushed out "I trust you" when I was all "I don't trust ME!". And when her check failed to come in until two weeks later, I was certain she'd decided to stiff me (not to mention I was out 200 of my own change awaiting reimbursement on top of my fee). Seed money is goooood.
You know those days when you fall so far down the rabbithole of code (or some other task) that when you come up for air you feel functionally hungover, or possibly still drunk in a bad way? Yeah. One of those. And I'm not sure how to fit the rest of the week into the week.
And I can't even get the code squirrel to shut down.
Swim was surreal. I was both mentally and physically checked out and spacey.
If they don't want to pay it then they can make the decision not to hire you.
That a thousand times.
Suela, continued good wishes in figuring out stuff for your parents. And a job!