Wash: I mean, I'm the one she swore to love, honor and obey. Mal: Listen... She swore to obey? Wash: Well, no, not...

'War Stories'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sarameg - May 13, 2013 5:56:36 pm PDT #22361 of 30001

Of course, I know several people whose cats are thrilled when the harness and leash come out because it means walkies outside!

This is Loki. He runs to the door if I pick up the leash. Devi was always about the drunk puddle of sideways cat with rubber legs that didn't work. She'd have made a good mop? Pumpkin had managed to get half of it into the toilet?

Wine night. Why do these always end up on days where I know my stomach is going to be tetchy?


§ ita § - May 13, 2013 6:17:52 pm PDT #22362 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I did not get out of the office until it was so late it took under 20 minutes to get home.

A lot of it was nattering about...common obstacles, so not bad, but I did have a 4:30-5:00 meeting that ran late (because of me), which people should not do. New director is trying to work out how to get more of my time. It's good that he's asking--both because he likes what I've done so far, and because it's not assuming, and I have to pace myself and not create my own mortal landslide.

Such a vote of confidence. Slash potential for explosion.

When my boss was asked for an HTML 5 resource, he told the new director "train ita !, if she'll let you." That's scary for a number of reasons. Not least of all because I shouldn't be closest to the front of the line because I am not a developer. But I do have more HTML 5 / CSS coding experience than most of IT. And, shit, I almost agreed to be the IIS subject matter expert, because I'm only second or third in that line--but it's deeply frustrating when someone on my team will not listen to what I say because I'm not a developer. I might as well have my hand up the architect's butt at this point--not that he doesn't know the answers--he does, but he's busy with actual important work.


Kat - May 13, 2013 6:28:31 pm PDT #22363 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Did you all know that radiolab did a story on micropreemies and didn't tell me because you thought I had PTSD about it? [link] The article they link to could have been my life. Except it's a little worse and a little better.


§ ita § - May 13, 2013 7:00:31 pm PDT #22364 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Oh, hey, Kat--did you know immunisations caused Grace's health problems? God, I love my nurse. I know I told the stories the right way round, but somehow the extended impact of early delivery Grace and my cousin Julian is a vax issue.

And she did completely miss the point, which was that they are excellent lovable kids.


Kat - May 13, 2013 7:08:51 pm PDT #22365 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Whose immunizations? Grace's or mine? Either way, woo woo nurse is not science-based.

I must have been in shock when the kids were first in the hospital. I distinctly remember thinking "they aren't micro preemies! the doc thought they were bigger than he anticipated!"

There's a line in the article about waiting for the baby to declare itself. It's not something you hear outside a NICU but I do remember it.

I also love the fact that the ridiculous expense of my children is counterbalanced by the high NICU success rate. As opposed to an adult ICU which is equally expensive with more mortality thrown in.

I mainlined the articles at school and was deeply moved. The comments on the radiolab piece are maddening.


Burrell - May 13, 2013 8:14:22 pm PDT #22366 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I just read the first article you linked to, Kat, and want now to read the rest. Whoa.


§ ita § - May 13, 2013 8:32:53 pm PDT #22367 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Whose immunizations?

Grace's, magically. What does "declare" mean, Kat? I'm saving the article for tomorrow when brain. Oh, and how little were your little ones, Kat?

Hey, if anyone can help me suss out a "deal" with Nikon DSLRs, can you help me here: ita ! "Buffistechnology 3: "Press Some Buttons, See What Happens."" May 13, 2013 10:29:03 pm PDT ?


§ ita § - May 13, 2013 8:57:06 pm PDT #22368 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Serial: The answer to "Why is Lena Dunham the voice of the/our/your/XYZ generation?" (truly, that was the link from EW to HuffPo) One of the items seems to be "because she can have her character identify that way, and another would be...shit, I don't know.

But now I can find out how Chris Brown irritated his neighbours, and how they can strike back! Maybe I didn't read that one.


Kat - May 14, 2013 1:09:05 am PDT #22369 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Declare means exhibit a will to live. Now the radio lab listeners are offended by that, they say its too close to abortion sctivists and what they have to say. I know it as the first 3 days are honeymoon ones as as systems fail you begin to see if you have a fighter. Grace self extubated several times which seemed to be her declaration that she was here and wanted to stay.


Dana - May 14, 2013 3:52:54 am PDT #22370 of 30001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Huh. Angelina Jolie had a preventive double mastectomy.

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