Book: Where's the doctor? Not back yet? Zoe: (beat) We don't make him hurry for the little stuff. He'll be along. Book: He could hurry... a little.

'Safe'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - May 04, 2013 3:09:32 am PDT #21484 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

See, I was going to say that, but then I looked at it and thought, "That looks so, so wrong."

I know! I kept going to edit to clarify, but decided I could just trust you people to know what I meant.


Jessica - May 04, 2013 3:14:16 am PDT #21485 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Don't you think the real issue is how much of your time every day is spent devoted to each item, and in what capacity? Like sex, even if you're having it every day, tends to be a low time commitment: high reward kind of activity. Whereas raising kids? Not actually a singular activity, hence significant time commitment: varying levels of reward. Religion I'm gonna say more like the kids things. And alcohol? Low time commitment: low reward.

My reaction on Facebook was to repost a link to Moxie's blog post about parenting-the-job vs parenting-the-relationship. Parenting jobs (changing diapers, wiping noses, scheduling extracurriculars) are way less fun than either sex or alcohol, but neither of those two things give you the parenting relationship that having kids does. Well, sex might, eventually. But it's a completely different metric of "happy"


Matt the Bruins fan - May 04, 2013 3:24:33 am PDT #21486 of 30001
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

It should probably also be considered that something that involves love can't really be compared to something that doesn't. People you love have the power to make you unhappy like nothing else on the planet, but the peaks are magnified just as much as the valleys.


-t - May 04, 2013 4:36:46 am PDT #21487 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

This coffee popsicle is making me pretty happy. I think I have found my preferred summertime weekend caffeine delivery system.


Lee - May 04, 2013 5:07:06 am PDT #21488 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I believe those might have to be a topic of discussion later today , -t


-t - May 04, 2013 5:17:47 am PDT #21489 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Well, put it on the agenda. Maybe between "Dogs: pretty cute, right?" and "Drinks that go with strawberries"


Jessica - May 04, 2013 5:24:35 am PDT #21490 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

A coffee popsicle would be amazing if it weren't fifty degrees here. Where'd the spring go???


-t - May 04, 2013 5:28:58 am PDT #21491 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

May is fickle, weather-wise.


Theodosia - May 04, 2013 5:44:02 am PDT #21492 of 30001
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

51 is warm enough to have the windows open! ::wears a sweater::


Jesse - May 04, 2013 5:46:39 am PDT #21493 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

You know, I've made coffee ice cubes, but I never thought of coffee popsicles! Brilliant.

So I'm on the train and the woman across the aisle is painting her nails. I see where it seems like a good idea, with all the time sitting still, but the fumes are just rude. Ion, the woman who sat down next to me asked if she could leave her stuff here while she went to sit in the cafe car. HELL YES. Seat taken with no one in it? Perfect.