Stop means no. And no means no. So . . . stop.

Xander ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DebetEsse - Apr 22, 2013 6:22:14 pm PDT #20176 of 30001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Apparently, sara's week did not get the memo that last week (aka "This fucking week") is over. Hopefully it just got confused and thought Monday-Monday


Glamcookie - Apr 22, 2013 6:23:19 pm PDT #20177 of 30001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Sara, I'm so sorry about Devi. It's always so hard.

In re: the dead eyed parents: those that don't have kids can't understand the level of exhaustion that you reach sometimes. Doesn't mean you don't love your kids or that you're dead inside. Just friggin' tired after years of sleep deprivation. My kid didn't sleep through the night for about 2.5 years. YEARS, people! I still don't know how any of us survived it. I'm just hoping with all I've got that the next one is a sleeper. Signed, Dead Eyes


aurelia - Apr 22, 2013 6:32:58 pm PDT #20178 of 30001
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

It's been ages since I was in Jeff City, but I always remember going to a Chinese restaurant there. Other than that, I'd go for catfish.


Lee - Apr 22, 2013 6:36:17 pm PDT #20179 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Oh Sara, I am sorry your friend had to go through that, but very glad you were there.


DavidS - Apr 22, 2013 6:41:32 pm PDT #20180 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

My kid didn't sleep through the night for about 2.5 years. YEARS, people! I still don't know how any of us survived it. I'm just hoping with all I've got that the next one is a sleeper. Signed, Dead Eyes

Yeah, Emmett didn't sleep through the night until he was 5. Which is the Number One Reason why it took me ten years to even consider having another child.

I'm sorry sarameg, that's a tough loss, and a shitty day.


Glamcookie - Apr 22, 2013 6:48:41 pm PDT #20181 of 30001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Yeah, Emmett didn't sleep through the night until he was 5.

Oh. My. God. You have just put the fear in me, dude.


DavidS - Apr 22, 2013 6:51:53 pm PDT #20182 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Oh. My. God. You have just put the fear in me, dude.

I ain't gonna lie. It's bad. But you know how it is when you get by with 5.5 guaranteed hours of sleep a night. Plus or minus an hour.

HOWEVER, I am quite certain that you will not suffer this experience. Baby Boy the Second, will be a good sleeper from the get-go. I can feel it!


Hil R. - Apr 22, 2013 6:55:33 pm PDT #20183 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

My mom has said that I didn't sleep through the night until kindergarten. By the time I was two or three, though, I knew that, if I woke up during the night, I could play with my dolls or look at my books in bed, and then go back to sleep when I was tired. That was my general sleep pattern until sometime during college, really -- I'd usually wake up in the middle of the night and read or something for a while, then go back to sleep.


DavidS - Apr 22, 2013 7:02:17 pm PDT #20184 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

By the time I was two or three, though, I knew that, if I woke up during the night, I could play with my dolls or look at my books in bed, and then go back to sleep when I was tired.

'Cuz you're a frickin' genius, unlike my son.

It's funny, when I took Emmett in for his last physical to get cleared for high school sports the pediatrician was asking about general concerns and she was scandalized when I said, "I don't worry about Emmett. He's very balanced; he's kind of a B+ at everything - school, sports, social."

Like that was the worst, most demoralizing thing a parent could say. "I'm sure he's an A at everything!" she asserted.

To which I thought, "Nope. Not unless he works harder. And seriously, Emmett's ego is more than fine. He's totally convinced he's awesome in every particular."


sarameg - Apr 22, 2013 7:17:45 pm PDT #20185 of 30001

I've got 12 more hours of training and then regular work shit and I kinda want to crawl under the covers and never come out (unless someone is yelling outside!)

I'm going to hate tomorrow. No if ands or buts.

At least I don't have kids?

My remaining cats (sob) have finally cuddled.And I'm using my grandmother's old super soft dishcloth to wipe my sad, sad, sore face.

Tomorrow will suck.