Well, look who just popped open a fresh can of venom.

Xander ,'Empty Places'


Natter 71: Someone is wrong on the Internet  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Kat - Mar 30, 2013 6:38:52 pm PDT #16682 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

According to Emily Post: "But, there is no mention of gifts – not even “no gifts, please” – and never any mention of registry information on invitations. " I think it has to do with you are not to presuppose that people were planning on bringing gifts.

It's also really interesting how gifting is very cultural within my neighborhood. The Armenian families were all very wigged out by not bringing a gift for the kids and some did anyhow. One even gave a $20 bill to Grace! The rest of the families brought books as requested.


Laura - Mar 30, 2013 6:46:12 pm PDT #16683 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

30 little kids is way more work than 60 teens! I'm glad a good time was had by all. Hope rest is an option now.


-t - Mar 30, 2013 6:50:37 pm PDT #16684 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I have never actually used a cookie press, I did not know there was required sticking to the sheet. Sounds tricky. I bet if you stuck the whole tray in the freezer (probably not directly out of the oven) the different cooling rates of cookie and metal would make them easier to separate. Maybe also more prone to breakage. And sounds like a prohibitively slow process, really. But it's an idea.

Emily Post has a point, but for kid's birthdays, how else would you get that information out there?


Amy - Mar 30, 2013 6:53:53 pm PDT #16685 of 30001
Because books.

I have never actually used a cookie press, I did not know there was required sticking to the sheet.

We have one, and my mom has one, and as far as I knew the dough was sticky enough to ... stick. But we always use the butter pretzel recipe, I think.


meara - Mar 30, 2013 7:39:56 pm PDT #16686 of 30001

I dislike the silpat I have because the bottoms of the cookies cook wrong? But I'd try parchment paper or even aluminum foil.

On my résumé I don't put "I ran a 2500 person conference" or whatever, but just leave off the I. "Ran 2500 person conference; oversaw three staff members and budget of 700 million" or whatever (none of those are things on my résumé)


brenda m - Mar 30, 2013 7:59:50 pm PDT #16687 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

But here's a question: should a resume be written in 1st person? Like, "I did x and I did that"? Because a former coworker, a tech editor, edited my resume that way and it just looks weird to me. Is that the thing now?

In a cover letter, but on the resume I've rarely seen it that way. It would strike me as a little odd.


Strix - Mar 30, 2013 8:04:49 pm PDT #16688 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Resume used power verbs, no first person. Cover letter, more braggy; I oversaw; I developed.

Skills fit the position vs. I have these, choose me.

One unlocks the door; the other opens it up. You have to walk over the threshold and put the chokehold on the job.


Consuela - Mar 30, 2013 8:05:20 pm PDT #16689 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

In a cover letter, but on the resume I've rarely seen it that way. It would strike me as a little odd

Right, that's what I thought. So confused. Thing is, the guy who did the editing is an old friend & the husband of my old boss, who offered his services as a favor. Well, I just won't send that one around, I think...


Burrell - Mar 30, 2013 8:33:44 pm PDT #16690 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I worked all day and now my brain is toast. But DH has decided to take advantage of the free HBO and gorge on GoT. I hadn't watched it before, but it goes down surprisingly easy.


Sheryl - Mar 31, 2013 5:21:02 am PDT #16691 of 30001
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Groceries and basketball. That's my day.