ita !, first name or last name?
Anya ,'Potential'
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One of my co-workers just found out he's been pronouncing his name "wrong" for 40+ years.
On Aisha Tyler's Girl on Guy podcast, Peter Facinelli said he pronounced his last name wrong until he was 17 or 18.
First, Debet.
I realise now I would stumble the hell over pronouncing Facinelli. Never really thought about that.
One of my friends in elementary school was from an Indian family, and she had an Indian name. When she was about 9, she and her parents took a trip to India, and all her relatives there said that she and her parents had been pronouncing her name wrong, so she started using the correct pronunciation. It was a small change, but it took a while for all her friends to remember to use it consistently, and it really must have been weird for her to start introducing herself differently.
On the other had, if I remember 9 year olds, she probably really enjoyed being able to correct everyone, especially adults.
In Rosemary Mahoney's great book about Ireland, Whoredom in Kimmage, she constantly noted how the Irish mocked her pronunciation of her last name.
She pronounced it as we typically do: "Mah-Ho-Nee."
Which made them hoot in derision.
Because apparently it's supposed to be more like: "Moh-(ch)Knee."
My name is pronounced precisely how the fuck I say it is. That's my bright line right there.
(small pass given to the Quebecois accent, for vaguely nostalgic feels)
Because apparently it's supposed to be more like: "Moh-(ch)Knee."
Whoa. Having grown up around a lot of Mahoneys, my mind has just been blown.
My grandfather pronounced our last name different from either of his children or any of their children, but he was definitely saying it wrong! Or at least, he was making a letter silent for no apparent reason.
I had a friend in drama school named Attila. But he didn't pronounce like we do, to kinda rhyme with flotilla, but "Ah-tee-la." And he wanted everyone to pronounce it that way. Which I did (when I didn't forget and call him Alex), but I always felt douchy doing it.