I have finesse! I have finesse coming out of my bottom!

Anya ,'Showtime'


Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Atropa - Oct 12, 2012 4:40:07 pm PDT #25533 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

People who think free speech is synonymous with freedom from consequence make me tired.

This. THIS! Sure, say whatever you want, just be prepared to deal with what happens after, including being publicly outed and shamed if you're a creepy troll who posts upskirt photos of minors.


msbelle - Oct 12, 2012 5:01:04 pm PDT #25534 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

omg sara is the smartest. exactly THAT.

I think my Saturday of having friends come over and have adult time is gonna be lame and may not even happen. The people I texted asking if mac could hang with them for a while never got back with me. I am so miffed that we ask and have people over like 4 times more than ever ask to have mac over. I know they all just go and do a lot more as families and/or have multiple kids, so having playmates over is not really something they think about as we do. So I end up asking people if he can come over which is exhausting and makes me feel like the neediest needy moocher ever. ANd of course if he is here he will not hang in his room. I am just gonna get all whiny. It's been like 3 months of talking about getting together to even have this half-assed Sat morning/early afternoon thing AT MY HOUSE not even a thing. depressed.


Burrell - Oct 12, 2012 5:18:13 pm PDT #25535 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

We are hoping to see the shuttle this weekend, if we can get our act together.

msbelle, I so share the guilty feelings about asking people to host my kids for play dates, but then I think that there's no reason to feel guilty. I mean, I'm happy to host kids here when I can, and my sitter is happy to host play dates too. So if I don't mind, why am I so convinced my friends will consider it an imposition? Doesn't make sense.

Not hearing back from folks is a drag, no doubt, but don't add feelings of guilt on top of that.


Jesse - Oct 12, 2012 5:18:33 pm PDT #25536 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Bah, msbelle. Good for you for calling and asking people about him going over there. I know it's not at all the same thing, but basically everyone I know here has a boyfriend, so I feel like I'm always the one who has to see if they want to hang out, and then it's a random weekday. Not that I want to be anywhere but here right now, don't get me wrong.

People who think free speech is synonymous with freedom from consequence make me tired.

MmmHMMM.


Jesse - Oct 12, 2012 5:20:40 pm PDT #25537 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

If it's any consolation, your cute puppy and kitten on the Good Stuff already has 400 notes, and I think is the reason for the bunch of new followers just now.


msbelle - Oct 12, 2012 5:32:55 pm PDT #25538 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

My guilt is because they really never ask me to watch their kids. When we have playmates here, we have extended the invitation 95% of the time. It is just never reciprocated.

I would just like a small social life and I don't have one or the energy it seems it would require for me to have any semblance of one.


msbelle - Oct 12, 2012 6:07:28 pm PDT #25539 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

yeah I just cancelled.


§ ita § - Oct 12, 2012 6:09:25 pm PDT #25540 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I think some guy who answered a work tech support call (one for form--I needed to create a ticket through our third party help desk so the guy one row over could officially do something for me) just sent me a connect request on LinkedIn. There's no other reason some guy I've never met, but with that resume is looking in my direction.

How freaking creepy.


JZ - Oct 12, 2012 6:16:46 pm PDT #25541 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Mondegreen of the day, courtesy of Matilda watching YouTube and idly singing along:

All the other boys, they try to bathe me, but here's my number, so call me maybe...


Kat - Oct 12, 2012 6:46:17 pm PDT #25542 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Okay, is Mindy Kaling always annoying?