You never know if a girl's gonna say 'yes', or if she's gonna laugh in your face and pull out your still-beating heart and crush it into the ground with her heel.

Xander ,'Help'


Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


§ ita § - Sep 26, 2012 12:22:53 pm PDT #23572 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Check out this way to separate eggs

Huh. Nifty.

I try and not have bottled water, though.

Just had the longest call with my boss. Maybe we talked an hour after the meeting ended? Like, he was furious again, and started yelling, and then apologised for the yelling...

I said, fine. Last time we did this, I went away with a plan, and that plan didn't work, so I want another plan--I want to know from you what I should have done differently/right/better.

Then I went off the record. I told him the last time I enjoyed working, and with whom, and why. I told him I was still liable for results, but I had no one useful to manage, so I was literally hitting up people in other departments to try and get them to do our work, or straying across boundaries and doing it myself.

"I can't get results because everyone on my team sucks. I was good working with the developer than left in March. You're mad at me for not getting results, and I accept I should have made this explicit earlier. But my manager knows no work is getting done, that everyone we do have is spinning their wheels, and I don't know when's appropriate to go over her head to you. But eveyrthing, every issue, is reported to her on a weekly, if not daily basis. I assume it's reasons beyond my ken why nothing actually gets fixed about the situation."


flea - Sep 26, 2012 12:35:02 pm PDT #23573 of 30001
information libertarian

I'm sort of confused that you have a manager who is not your boss? I would use those words interchangeably.


Consuela - Sep 26, 2012 12:39:17 pm PDT #23574 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

But eveyrthing, every issue, is reported to her on a weekly, if not daily basis. I assume it's reasons beyond my ken why nothing actually gets fixed about the situation."

Which is about as tactful way as possible to lay the blame on your manager.


Jesse - Sep 26, 2012 12:48:19 pm PDT #23575 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Check out this way to separate eggs.

I've done it! It's fun.

Wow, you guys, I really feel like hell. I went back to bed and slept for three hours, which is really not like me. Now I'm making avgolemono for dinner. I may actually stay home again tomorrow and not even go to my interview.


meara - Sep 26, 2012 12:59:43 pm PDT #23576 of 30001

Is it bad that I have a hard time believing this? But think its almost o GoodStuff worthy. Which is sad.

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ChiKat - Sep 26, 2012 1:02:19 pm PDT #23577 of 30001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

I believe I've mentioned before the small-world fact that I know the guitar player/music director for Sugarland, or, as we call it, the Antichrist. (Sometimes knowing too much about band members is not a good thing.)

I love Sugarland. Glad I am living in ignorant bliss.


Jesse - Sep 26, 2012 1:04:06 pm PDT #23578 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Huh.


le nubian - Sep 26, 2012 1:35:34 pm PDT #23579 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Can I get some information from the hivemind about when/if I should fire my realtor? Has anyone here done it? He is a seller's agent and I'm trying to get a sense of whether I need to investigate the services of another realtor or not.


flea - Sep 26, 2012 1:45:36 pm PDT #23580 of 30001
information libertarian

I've wondered about it, but not done it. What are your concerns?


SuziQ - Sep 26, 2012 1:46:14 pm PDT #23581 of 30001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I have never fired a realtor, though I seriously considered it when selling our house 4 years ago. I kinda regret not shopping around.

In ME news, just had my annual physical. All systems look good, pending results from the 5 viles of blood that was drawn. I also got a flu shot. Wheeeee.

I love my doc. I definitely got more than 15 minutes of her undivided attention. We talked through all my issues and I was the one who brought up the weight issue. She pointed me to a neat free app to track calories - my fitness pal. I'll give it a shot. I also need to get back to regular karate group class twice a week. Now that I should be past the mega-OT I've been working, I plan to return to day class.