I seen you without your clothes on before. Never thought I'd see you naked.

Mal ,'Trash'


Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Liese S. - Sep 25, 2012 5:36:48 pm PDT #23464 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Yeah, unsurprisingly, dropout rates on the reservation are exponentially worse than the norm.

Kat, you have had a seriously shit month.


sarameg - Sep 25, 2012 5:36:57 pm PDT #23465 of 30001

OK, this Tammy Taylor-clone totally moved one of her students into her house after he asked.


Jesse - Sep 25, 2012 5:40:53 pm PDT #23466 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

(in CA it's until 18 not 16)

Yeah, I was surprised to hear that.


le nubian - Sep 25, 2012 5:43:25 pm PDT #23467 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

I think the definitions are part of the conundrum. OTOH, I heard that the rate of started-but-failed-to-graduate college has gone up in the US in comparison to the rest of the world. On NPR somewhere. Waving hands.

Yes. this stat was on last week's TAL, but it is a standard stat in education. It's a bad situation that could be improved if colleges spent more time an effort on the problem. IMO.


Jesse - Sep 25, 2012 5:44:58 pm PDT #23468 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh fuck. I bought a jumbo bag of cough drops this morning, but left most of them in the office. I can't decide if I should set my alarm for the morning or just try to sleep. Ugh.


sarameg - Sep 25, 2012 5:45:14 pm PDT #23469 of 30001

...and totally the kid pulled a Riggins. Yeah.


Kat - Sep 25, 2012 6:02:30 pm PDT #23470 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

le nubian,

It's a bad situation that could be improved if colleges spent more time an effort on the problem.

What do you think colleges could do? I am curious because we have lots of kids who think they'll do 2 years of community and transfer to a four year. In 4 years, we've had 2 kids transfer (one was highly motivated and the valedictorian who wasn't allowed to go to Berkeley because her parents wouldn't let her move that far away). We have fewer kids who enroll in a 4 year and then dropout.

I can't imagine ever letting a kid live with me. It's just not... I don't know. I have my own family to raise. Maybe that makes me an asshole, but the ideal will-do-anything-for-a-kid can do some harm in all that good.


sarameg - Sep 25, 2012 6:10:24 pm PDT #23471 of 30001

She was pretty clear this was pretty much an extraordinary choice. She had 3 kids! CRAZY.

It doesn't make anyone an asshole to not choose that. I wasn't trying to imply that was a viable option- just the parallels to FNL's scripts had me agape.


Liese S. - Sep 25, 2012 6:33:24 pm PDT #23472 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Pretty much every one of our ministry partners or other missionaries in the area is raising a kid. Adoption to non-Native parents isn't legal, so none of them are actual adoptions.

I seriously respect that kind of dedication but I have some severe doubts as to whether or not we could do it ourselves. I mean, we're not parents biologically already because of reasons.


msbelle - Sep 25, 2012 6:35:49 pm PDT #23473 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

since I did not see all of FNL my mind's idea of totally pulling a Riggins is only gonna work if Tammy's recently dumped younger sister comes to live with them. And she looks a lot like me. IJS.