To commemorate a past event, you kill and eat an animal. It's a ritual sacrifice, with pie.

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Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Typo Boy - Apr 24, 2012 2:22:21 pm PDT #2218 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Taking the first example of a high percentage of "false" accusation. (Kanin, 1994)- well known study. Its "rigorous" methodolgy really meant rape victims were treated as guilty until proven innocent and pressured into retracting. David Lisak. [link]

I was able to look that up quickly because I've encountered the Kanin study before. No time for the others.


Sheryl - Apr 24, 2012 2:22:21 pm PDT #2219 of 30001
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Got back from Toronto(via Buffalo) last night. The con was great. Lots of good music and good friends. Also, Gary was inducted into the Filk Hall of Fame, which honors those who have contributed significantly to the filk community. (We've been sitting on the news since January.)


Polter-Cow - Apr 24, 2012 2:27:46 pm PDT #2220 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

That's great, congrats to him!


Allyson - Apr 24, 2012 2:27:46 pm PDT #2221 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Thanks for helping me out guys. I was uber confused.


le nubian - Apr 24, 2012 2:30:00 pm PDT #2222 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

The studies seems to have a small number of participants and seem to be on (?) college campuses. I think FBI stats who include a wider swath of the population, have more people are likely going to be more reliable.

Do I think it is *possible* that the false accusations are above 8%? Yes. Do I think they are as high as 50%? hell no.

But I can imagine constructing a study where you'd get 50+%. Citing two studies to support this point is not particularly persuasive for me.


JZ - Apr 24, 2012 2:31:28 pm PDT #2223 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Also, Allyson, IIRC from previous iterations of this same awful argument (probably with the same awful people), there may also be a question of terminology: a lot of what some people call "false" accusations are likely true, but charges end up being dropped because they're ultimately felt to be "unfounded," which is often police-dept.-speak for "not enough physical evidence to support a trial and conviction." Which can often be the case for rape via nonviolent coercion, deception or Rohypnol; the rape may very well have happened, but it's unprovable on the physical evidence alone.

"Half or more false" is really, really hard for whoever you're arguing against to defend (or for you to attack) without some clearer definition of terms.


DavidS - Apr 24, 2012 2:33:23 pm PDT #2224 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I swear by mine. Great for making focaccia or French bread toast as well as paninis!

Which one do you have, Matt?


Jesse - Apr 24, 2012 2:37:34 pm PDT #2225 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

a lot of what some people call "false" accusations are likely true, but charges end up being dropped because they're ultimately felt to be "unfounded," which is often police-dept.-speak for "not enough physical evidence to support a trial and conviction." Which can often be the case for rape via nonviolent coercion, deception or Rohypnol; the rape may very well have happened, but it's unprovable on the physical evidence alone.

That's a really excellent -- and horrifying -- point.


-t - Apr 24, 2012 2:38:34 pm PDT #2226 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yay, WindSparrow and Daniel! I wish you both much joy.

That's awesome news, Sheryl! Congrats to Gary!

I just made gougeres for the first time. I'd never heard of them before someone (I think lisah?) mentioned them here. And, my goodness, those things are tasty. So thanks, lisah! Yum.


Allyson - Apr 24, 2012 2:40:08 pm PDT #2227 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

The study TB linked to looks really helpful. The Police Department was using intimidation tactics like lie detector tests.

Seriously, no one makes you take a lie detector test when you're mugged or you get robbed.

"Sir, how do I know you didn't give the guy all your money?"

"Sir, how do I know you even HAD a wallet?"

I guess that's a shitty comparison. I'm analogyless.