The who with the what now?

Quick question. I have a friend who just got diagnosed with early stage breast cancer and underwent removal of the tumor about 10 days ago. All went well and they haven't found any lymph node involvement, so hopefully she'll be fine with adjunctive radiation therapy alone. I'll probably go visit her soon and thought it might be nice to get her a card and a gift, but I have no idea what to get her. She's a professional woman in her early 40's, and fairly girly.

Vonnie, I would be careful about pink things. I know it's the color of breast cancer awareness, but my mother, in a similar situation, was very "meh" on the whole pink thing.

Maybe a pashmina or something like that? Lightweight and pretty, but could help with body temperature regulation?

I was thinking about something like that, actually. A pretty scarf, maybe. She loves scarves. There is always lotions and bath stuff, but I don't know what kind of scent she likes.

stay away from bath and lotions if you don't know what scent she likes.

does she like books? maybe a good book?

I love zulilly. I just got a fantastic deal on Keens for the kids, soccer shoes , and a Capresso

The who with the what now?

Whoops. keyboard smash included enter, somehow.

It's the premise of the conflict that the Judges have to resolve.

My sister wants me to give a friend of hers my bank account info so she can deposit money into my account. My first reflex was to ask if she has paypal, but she's not in the US, Canada, or UK, so I'm gathering it's even less likely.

I saw something on the BofA website that looked like it could be helpful, but honestly, I have no idea what I just enabled. Better not incur charges. Anyway...what is the most secure, simplest and most not-pricey way to set up such shenanigans?

Wore my pink check faux trench today. I wish it was made for someone taller, and with breasts. I doubt it was supposed to be an empire cut trench coat. Harrumph.

JZ-- please to invite? can't guarantee I'll buy anything, but my gratitude is massive enough ti's almost coalesced into tangibility.

Jesse, maybe try this [link] ?

I used to use it when traveling with the cats or moving apartments. Gave it to a friend who had moved and her cat was scared of the new basement. It didn't work, she still wouldn't use the litter box in it's new creepy location. Friend passed it on to another friend who's cat decided to pee on the carpet. No amount of special cleaners could keep the cat from going back. Freaked the cat out on the first day (she'd sprayed the pheremone in the peed-upon area), and ever since then, the cat avoids that spot like the plague and uses the litter box in the basement.

Isn't there a website that gives the layout of different airports so you can see how far you'll have to run between flights?

Stephanie, I'm a day late here. I'm a child of divorce as well as a parent. KCD has CJ on the weekends - it has taken 3 years for KCD to hop on the homework enforcement bandwagon. CJ still doesn't have weekend chores and somehow refuses to see (or admit) to KCDs flaws. It is frustrating and there are times I wonder if CJ will ask to spend most of his time there. But I can really only deal with the now. Hopefully the parenting I do now will give him the tools he needs for the future.