Y'all see the man hanging out of the spaceship with the really big gun? Now I'm not saying you weren't easy to find. It was kinda out of our way, and he didn't want to come in the first place. Man's lookin' to kill some folk. So really it's his will y'all should worry about thwarting.

Mal ,'Safe'


Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Kat - Aug 06, 2012 3:52:24 pm PDT #17208 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Also, I suspect that stylists for black hair are pretty rare in Des Moines.

YES! And you know, girl was busy training for the Olympics. I will say I find her extremely charming and adorable.


Kat - Aug 06, 2012 3:52:39 pm PDT #17209 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Tom, that's awesome!


Hil R. - Aug 06, 2012 3:53:38 pm PDT #17210 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

The term Jewish hair will never not confuse me, as long as black people can, you know, be Jewish. But I guess if Jewish people are making the equivalence...

Yeah, it pretty much means "the type of hair that a lot of Jewish people have, and which is the focus of much angst and discussion within many Jewish communities," even though not all Jews have that sort of hair, and not all people with that sort of hair are Jewish. But it's got a kind of social and emotional relevance among Jews that I haven't seen in many other communities. It's not the same thing as the relevance that black hair has, but hair within a lot of mostly-white Jewish communities has meaning that hair doesn't have within most other mostly-white communities that I've seen.


amyth - Aug 06, 2012 3:56:10 pm PDT #17211 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

I hate garbage disposals. I have one now, and I avoid it/fear it. Like javachik, I compost as much as I can, so it's not a huge issue.

Speaking of composting, smonster check this out! [link]

I think we're going to do this at The Compound. Now we'll be able to compost EVERYTHING.

Our pub quiz team name tonight is “7 Minutes of Terror”.

Love. It.


Hil R. - Aug 06, 2012 3:58:31 pm PDT #17212 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I'm trying to find a decent article that talks about the culture of Jewish hair without comparing it to black hair. It seems like there were a whole bunch of articles written a few years ago by Jewish women who saw "Good Hair" and thought, "Hey, we've got something to talk about, too," and those ones are kind of dominating the google results. This one is sort of what I'm looking for, but not quite. [link]


le nubian - Aug 06, 2012 4:01:49 pm PDT #17213 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Check it: I have a lot of extended family in Des Moines. I bet I could have hooked her up.


smonster - Aug 06, 2012 4:05:42 pm PDT #17214 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I think we're going to do this at The Compound. Now we'll be able to compost EVERYTHING.

Oh my god, I am JEALOUS. You won't believe how I've backslid environmentally. ::hangs head in shame::


sarameg - Aug 06, 2012 4:08:33 pm PDT #17215 of 30001

And you know, girl was busy training for the Olympics. I will say I find her extremely charming and adorable.

Yep. Some of the guards/instructors argue/tease over their hair. One has a short afro she sometimes does in twists or a really charming snood, another wears it much like Gabby (though if she's straight from a meet, she also often does a snood) and the other braids in various configs. All are competitive swimmers, and they debate whose hair is easiest to cope with having a life in the water. Near as I can tell, they always reach a draw. Braids feel poky in a cap, the 'fro doesn't like to compress and then doesn't uncompress easily, staightened frizzes out, but easy to pull back in desperation... They all agree that the other guard, a mixed-race woman with just naturally wavy hair, has the easiest hair. But she's got hair that you could put in a windtunnel full of pinesap and it would still turn out ok. She's uncommonly gifted with hair not affected by a swimming life.


lisah - Aug 06, 2012 4:15:56 pm PDT #17216 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

I'm not ashamed to say that I love my garbage disposal. And, knock wood, it's never caused me any issues in 4 years.


§ ita § - Aug 06, 2012 4:20:00 pm PDT #17217 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

But it's got a kind of social and emotional relevance among Jews that I haven't seen in many other communities

Are Jews in the US that different from British Jews? Because they just had straight hair at my mostly Jewish school. Same with the Jewish friends I made in Canada. The white people I know who had been down that stressful hair-straightening path were all non-Jews.

So seeing it treated like a pan-Jewish issue? Eye opening. Do you have the concomitant good hair issues where you're judged as militant if you wear your hair as is? Or you're a traitor if you do alter it? Like us?