Up until the punching, it was a real nice party.

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Jul 16, 2012 4:37:35 am PDT #14164 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

You should definitely go, and bring photos of pets you've taken and then you will build that as a business.


Steph L. - Jul 16, 2012 4:53:43 am PDT #14165 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I've been meaning to note, Tep, that Emmett used some of his hard-earned money to buy his own foam roller. He LOVES it to work out his sore muscle after doing cross-fit. We bought it from a medical supply place so presumably it will last.

Oh, even the less-sturdy Target one I bought has helped a great deal, so I'm on board with the heavy-duty one.

Also -- cross-fit is HARD CORE. Jesus.

I was just watching an unspecified show which seemed to hinge on a particular kind of swinging. But they stated it like This Is How You Swing. No men admitted without women--it's all about their comfort. However, the scenario is cuckolding, but a really weak kind--the husband chooses his "replacement", and he steps in at the last minute to prevent actual swinging being swung.

What is that, even? I mean, I'm not looking to prime time TV to accurately represent any sort of kink, but this seemed even more broken than, say, CSI and adult babies. If for nothing else than presenting it as the way it's done, not a way it's done.

I most emphatically Do Not Swing, because I don't even like most people I know to hug me. But there's a decent amount of crossover between the BDSM and swing communities, so (anecdatally) of the people I know who do swing, what that TV show described doesn't sound common at all. The point of swinging (as far as I've been exposed to it) is for everyone to get their freak on with someone else.

That said, of the swing clubs I know about, they do have some pretty strict rules about admitting men by themselves (i.e., not as part of a couple) -- they charge WAY more of a door fee for men by themselves than they do for couples or single women. The reason they give for that is that single dudes have gained a reputation of being really predatory at swing clubs.

Remember, all my swinging knowledge is secondhand, so take it with an enormous grain of salt.


Sophia Brooks - Jul 16, 2012 4:59:11 am PDT #14166 of 30001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

CSI and adult babies

I have a suspicion that CSI came across the fetish map. When they have an episode on Toy Boats, we will know the truth.


askye - Jul 16, 2012 5:03:59 am PDT #14167 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

Tom - Jesse has a good idea.

Or if you aren't sure about that, just say your talent is photography and you'll be taking pictures and people can see them on your blog/flickr. Do you have a business card with the your blog and flickr url? Then you could just hand them out.

Chris Hemsworth's little girl is adorable, love her little mohawk. The look on his face when he's looking down at her is so sweet.


§ ita § - Jul 16, 2012 5:05:55 am PDT #14168 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I think secondhand seems to be closer than these writers got. My friend with the snake in his bed was an enormous swinger, and regaled me with tales all the time. He was also the sort of swinger that travelled in a pack of (predatory) males, so there's that perspective too.

Scola, why would you be afeared of that party? You're already sharing a talent every time you put up a photograph on tumblr, so it's not like you're not warmed up.

The "accommodation" work is making for me is that I tell them at the start of the week which days I'll need to work from home. Which is precisely not how my problem goes, but I couldn't work anything else out with them. So I have to decide what this week will feel like based on today.

Ayup, I'm a magician as well as a (differently abled) business analyst. Lord have mercy.


Tom Scola - Jul 16, 2012 5:15:03 am PDT #14169 of 30001
hwæt

I’ve got a bad case of impostor syndrome. (I’m not fishing for complements here, seriously. It doesn’t help, anyway)


Ginger - Jul 16, 2012 5:22:42 am PDT #14170 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

That imposter is a hell of a photographer.


Steph L. - Jul 16, 2012 5:24:12 am PDT #14171 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

When they have an episode on Toy Boats, we will know the truth.

I live for that day.


-t - Jul 16, 2012 5:29:23 am PDT #14172 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I predict that party will not be full of people who are waiting to pounce on other guest's talents and denounce them. It will be full of people who are showing off their own talents and/or nursing their own impostor syndromes.


le nubian - Jul 16, 2012 5:40:16 am PDT #14173 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Talent Show

NO.

That was my answer after reading to this part. I didn't even get to the description. After reading the description. My answer is NO NO.

If you are more game than I am - much praise to you.

BTW, I have a big case of imposter syndrome myself. That self-doubt shit will kill you.