Harken: You fought with Captain Reynolds in the war? Zoe: Fought with a lot of people in the war. Harken: And your husband? Zoe: Fight with him sometimes, too.

'Bushwhacked'


Natter 70: Hookers and Blow  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


§ ita § - Jun 21, 2012 2:33:08 pm PDT #10706 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

My mother keeps wanting me to have goals. Every time I mention my boss or my manager she asks when I'll have that job.

Good god! No, please don't let that happen to me. That would be horrible.

I pretty much just aim to get paid more, and if I could work out how to do less that would be even better. But being my boss would not help.


Stephanie - Jun 21, 2012 2:39:02 pm PDT #10707 of 30001
Trust my rage

I read the Atlantic article earlier today. I thought most of it was yeah, pretty familiar. But I did appreciate the point about generational differences. The Mad Men Gen, the "we can do it all", and today's more "no, you can" generation.

I had heard Hillary Clinton is a great boss and it was nice to see that confirmed.


Jesse - Jun 21, 2012 2:44:15 pm PDT #10708 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

People talk about Goals, like, be Vice President of Real Estate for [Name] Hospital before I turn 45, or, Earn Enough To Send My Eight Kids To Dartmouth

Not most people.


Steph L. - Jun 21, 2012 2:51:44 pm PDT #10709 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

People talk about Goals, like, be Vice President of Real Estate for [Name] Hospital before I turn 45, or, Earn Enough To Send My Eight Kids To Dartmouth

Not most people.

I know some serious goddamn overachievers.


Jesse - Jun 21, 2012 2:54:20 pm PDT #10710 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

And a bunch of just-getting-by-ers!


Jessica - Jun 21, 2012 2:55:55 pm PDT #10711 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

My goal is to work about as hard as I do right now, but for more money doing more interesting stuff.

For my kids, I hope they grow up to be better happier people than me. Not that I'm miserable and awful, but I want them to beat me at life.


Sue - Jun 21, 2012 2:55:56 pm PDT #10712 of 30001
hip deep in pie

I got seized today with an attack of Holy-Shit-I'm-Turning-41*-What-Have-I-Done-With-My-Life-Oh-That's-Right-NOTHING-I'm-Not-Even-Climbing-The-Corporate-Ladder-I-Have-No-Goals-At-All-Holy-Shit.

Change that 41 to 42. Add and-the-job-I-can't-stand-is-stressing-me-out and welcome to the last six months of my life.

I realized after work today that I double booked my employment counselor and my anxiety counselor on Monday. I can't even manage two appointments on my day off.


Amy - Jun 21, 2012 2:58:05 pm PDT #10713 of 30001
Because books.

For my kids, I hope they grow up to be better happier people than me. Not that I'm miserable and awful, but I want them to beat me at life.

So much this.


-t - Jun 21, 2012 3:09:05 pm PDT #10714 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Rule or not rule?

Not rule. At least, it doesn't make a lot of sense to me.

Goals. Sigh. I do feel like I should have some of those, but I haven't been able to come up with any.


EpicTangent - Jun 21, 2012 3:20:30 pm PDT #10715 of 30001
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Thanks for the birthday wishes, everyone! Have a lovely evening, Lovely People!

P.S. I also often feel like the most Aimless Slacker of My Generation.

My goal is to work about as hard as I do right now, but for more money doing more interesting stuff.

That - THAT's my goal! (Thanks for articulating, Jess!)