Well, this was a year of changes. mr. flea's postdoc was set to expire in August, and he job searched and searched. At various points I looked up places like Berlin, Dublin, Ada OK, and Los Alamos. But we ended up in Cincinnati - possibly the most prosaic on the list! - and a place we'd actually lived before (and met, even.) He started his job in mid-September, and we all moved up Oct. 5. The kids are in an excellent-rated elementary school, I have a job in my field (though currently temporary, underpaid, and with a control freaky boss), and mr. flea really likes his job, which could easily be a forever job (unless a Republican president manages to actually abolish the EPA.)
But I'm not settled at all. We're in a temporary apartment; we have a house for sale in Georgia; I don't feel like we've found the right school community or neighborhood or job community (for me). I hate moving; I moved about every 3 years growing up and the longest I have lived in one city is 5 years (Durham NC) and I hate the instability of it all. I really wanted to be settled for a really long time in Georgia, although I hated the weather, and it will take a while for me to accept this move and find my way.
2011 was much like 2010 for me. Same job, same husband, same cats, same house.
Too many people I know suffered loss in some way. I keep telling the universe to lay off my friends, but it doesn't listen.
I know 2012 will have at least one change for me, as I will end up in a different lab by the end of the year. We'll see what else happens.
billytea - Ryan continues to be v. amusing.
He surely is. He's also reached an age where we can actually reason with him. With mixed results, but fairly often he'll listen. (Like the night I explained to him how the food he eats sends nutrition to all of his body, so it was important to eat good things, and he actually agreed to eat his vegetables. Refused again the next night, but it's something.)
Kat, if you haven't gotten the address yet, you can ask your giftee an anonymous question. If they respond, everyone will be able to see it, but it they don't mind that it'll work.
yeah guys, I've actually been working on this, just getting no response. There are multiple issues at play.
Kat got the address for her giftee from Suzi, just FYI.
I can echo most of Sheryl's post - same job, house, and cat. Also, while nothing much happened to me, the year was far too cruel to far too many of my friends.
For me, I feel like 2011 was mostly spent laying groundwork for 2012, in terms of identifying some long-buried issues that I need to deal with, and finally taking steps to move my job into more of a career path.
I do hope that in 2012, I can get some F2F time with at least some of y'all.
To follow a motif: Same house, new job, new cat.
Chez ch, this was one of those years that will prove to have been a major shift. I got out of a brain-numbing job and into my own business, which is at once terrifying and exhilarating. It remains roller-coastery, but much less so, and I'm utterly certain I want to keep on this path. I'm also utterly boring on the subject. Sorry, y'all. S got out of a dreadful dead end gig into a much better job that he rocks at. Re: cat, see paragraph 1 above. Traveled to new places, entirely by virtue of my so-called athletic career (a phrase that continues to CRACK MY SHIT UP). Saw buffistas I haven't seen or haven't seen in a long time. That part rocks without reservation.
Most of the changes have been very much for the good, but damn, I could use a nice year of more steady improvements and less massive upheaval.
I'm sneaking this in quickly, as my first set of NYE guests arrive in an hour, with M's 2 buddies and All Will Be Happy Chaos.
I wrote a blog post that recaps a lot of my year here: [link]
But let me add for your delectation, because y'all are my extended family. This year has been both hard and great. Dan and I celebrated our first year of marriage, and you guys know I never thought I'd BE married, so that's a wonder. Despite being perenially broke as hell, we still love each other very much, and are quite happy being geeks together.
I wasn't asked back to my teaching job, and I wouldn't have gone back to that snake pit anyway. I started freelancing full-time, and while money has been very, very tight, it is going well.
And let me just say this, and know it is a true, true thing: I NEVER WOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO DO IT WITHOUT YOU ALL. People have been my clients, have helped me with web design, with graphics, with tech, with networking, with testimonals...with love, encouragement, cheers and good criticism. I cannot, cannot ever thank you all enough. I love you.
Despite Dans ex continuing to be a PITA, my relationship with M is strong and good and more satisfying than I ever would have imagined. I never wanted to be called mom; somehow, I am now, and it fills my heart.
I continue to have fantastic friends I have know forever, and the relationships and good and sustaining. My family is in good health, and we love each other.
Despite a couple of rough patches, this has been the best year in a long time for my depression, anxiety and insomnia. Also, I lost 40 pounds, and am the slimmest I have been since my sophomore year of high school. Which was 1987.
I'll be 40 in 2012. 2011 was a hard year, but basically, a good one. Stuff will continue to be hard, but good, I hope. I am willing to, and I WILL, work at it, but I would like very much for my business to pick up and for us to be more financially stable, and therefore, less stressed, in 2012.
