{{{Tom}}}

Tom, on the quit-the-job-for-six-months angle, have you considered seeing if any professional photographers in the NYC area are looking for assistants? A few months helping out/apprenticing under a skilled photographer might let you pick up the technical skills with medium format cameras, darkroom development, and so on that could help lead to a viable career in the field. You have such a good eye for composition and and light, and it's clearly something that you enjoy doing.

Matt's idea = good idea

Seeing you at my Birthday/ post treatment celebration was one of the highlights of the year, Tom, for what that's worth.

Quester, I think the box from highland Ranch is part of the TJs exchange, not secret santa

Sorry, Perkins, Quester had it right. I sent her cookies along with her other Secret Santa treats. One box is chocolate/butterscotch/cinnamon chip cookies and the other box has ginger cookies.

I meant to put a card in the box, Quester, but I'm glad you figured it out. Happy Christmas Eve to all.

Oops! Never mind!

I like Matt's idea too!

I know that many academic/cultural institutions are dying for people with good IT skills in a variety of areas. They can't pay as well as industry (let alone banking), but if you want more satisfying work that will use your skills (and provide stability and insurance), you might look at libraries (NYPL has some interesting digital initiatives), academics (I know people doing neat stuff with ancient art & archaeology at NYU), or museums.

or schools or any type of non-profits. Also, you could sub-lease your place to make money and stay in my guest room while you find yourself. Just saying. Nothing says zen-like relaxation sabbatical from life, like my house.

wrt to exchange, I will be checking in at elfster to see how things are progressing. If people know they will be later than today in sending their gift, please email me at my profile address. thanks.

First, I want to volunteer to be a stand-in if anyone is unable to fulfill their Secret Santa (or Slacker Santa) role.

Second, 2011. Hm. A terrible year for many of the people I love, and for that, I’m glad to see it go. For me, it’s been a very mixed year. I watched my beloved Byron’s cancer return and had to face putting him to sleep, which was one of the hardest things I have ever done. After almost 18 years together, losing him was like losing a part of myself. But many good things happened this year, too. I was promoted to Department Chair at my school and am really enjoying my new position, despite its pitfalls. ND’s business continues to grow, and though we backslid financially during the first half of the year, we were finally able to catch up on all the back taxes and get current on estimated taxes for the first time ever during the second half of the year. Next year I hope to begin chipping away at the final hurdle: the massive pile of credit card debt that has haunted us for years. I think we may finally be able to do it, now that the back taxes are under control.

It was an incredible year for travel, for me. I was fortunate to be able to tag along with ND during his work abroad this past summer and fulfilled a lifelong dream to visit continental Europe (Spain and Italy). My two days alone in Barcelona were a revelation. I also spent time traveling for work (Massachusetts--not quite as exciting, though I love New England) and went home to Connecticut for a week to visit my parents. ND and I used frequent flier miles and vacation points to go on two vacations this year--one to the Pacific Northwest, and one to Hawaii--which were both wonderful times for the two of us to reconnect outside of our busy, busy work schedules.

I continue to feel incredibly lucky to be supported and loved by my family (actual and urban) and the love of my life, Drew. They are what make everything else okay, even when it isn’t.

Here’s to 2012--may it be peaceful, joyous, and healing for us all.