And boys -- let's watch the swearing.

Mayor ,'Chosen'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Nov 10, 2011 5:58:20 am PST #5795 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I want to live in a world where you don't have to be "state mandated" to report an adult raping a child to the police. Where every adult feels the same responsibility to protect kids, or anyone being abused.

Me too.


Hil R. - Nov 10, 2011 5:59:00 am PST #5796 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I want to live in a world where you don't have to be "state mandated" to report an adult raping a child to the police. Where every adult feels the same responsibility to protect kids, or anyone being abused.

This.


le nubian - Nov 10, 2011 6:06:31 am PST #5797 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Thing is, I am faculty in higher education and I am not around children on campus very much. When I am, the kids are related to my students or colleagues. I am one of the people who is unlikely to witness such abuse first hand.

So I think it probably wouldn't make sense to designate us as mandatory reporters, but my point earlier and raised again in this thread is that we should not have to be designated "mandatory" in order to call the cops and make sure a complaint is filed.

I call 911 if I see a car smoking on the side of the freeway. I have called 911 when I drove behind a suspected DUI. I believe in alerting authorities when I think a major crime has been committed or people are in danger. I sure as fuck would call 911 if a child was being abused.

I rescinded an offer of admission to a prospective student who sexually harassed a current student during a visitation weekend.

I don't have to be a mandatory reporter to do all of these things.


Hil R. - Nov 10, 2011 6:11:00 am PST #5798 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

In the comments sections of local newspapers, there are people saying that Paterno had "no standing" to call 911. Since when do people think you need some kind of legal standing to call 911? Legal standing comes in much later.


le nubian - Nov 10, 2011 6:15:56 am PST #5799 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

A car was driving the wrong direction down a freeway after a multi-car accident. I called 911. Should I not have?

I was not involved in the accident.

People's stupidity kills me.


Amy - Nov 10, 2011 6:17:19 am PST #5800 of 30001
Because books.

I think calling 911 would have been beside the point, by the time he found out, which was, I assume, not moments after it was witnessed.

McQueary should have called 911. AFTER he pulled Sandusky off the kid and beat the shit out of him.

You know, it's not even about getting Sandusky into police hands as much as it would have been about making sure that kid was okay. Who knows if he was ever examined? How many ten-year-old boys go home and tell their parents they were raped?


Hil R. - Nov 10, 2011 6:22:10 am PST #5801 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

The new football coach is giving a press conference. Pretty much, "We've got to understand that this team has put a lot of hard work in … they deserve to have this day" on questions about the game on Saturday, and "no comment" or "that was not my decision" on everything else.


le nubian - Nov 10, 2011 6:23:54 am PST #5802 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

I need to post a fun trivia fact before I have a rage blackout in my office.

The word cucumber was spelled and pronounced "cowcumber" in the 17th & 18th centuries until it rapidly and inexplicably changed to cucumber!

from twitter.


SailAweigh - Nov 10, 2011 6:24:22 am PST #5803 of 30001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

How many ten-year-old boys go home and tell their parents they were raped?

Exactly! These kids are so afraid of doing something wrong that when wrong is done to them, they have nowhere to turn. We talk about stranger-danger in classrooms, but we don't address what do you do when someone you trust abuses you.


DavidS - Nov 10, 2011 6:26:24 am PST #5804 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Frankly, I think that the whole football program should be shut down.

Never going to happen. It brings in something like $50 million to the university. Though their "brand" is now tarnished.

I am glad that the Trustees seem to understand that this isn't just a PR move to fire people. They do seem to have a sense of outrage and moved quickly.

The students of Penn, however, need mandatory classes in ethics and volunteer work with abused children.