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'Objects In Space'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


le nubian - Nov 08, 2011 3:45:52 pm PST #5495 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Unbelievable. You'd have to pry my ass away from the cops for me NOT to report that kind of crime.

I mean, really.


Stephanie - Nov 08, 2011 3:47:46 pm PST #5496 of 30001
Trust my rage

Okay, so when isn't it mandatory for someone to report to the fucking police when a child is being raped

I assumed this was said sarcastically.

I love my job but it brings me in contact with a lot of child abuse/rape and it is horrifying to me both how common it is and how little happens to those who do it.


Strix - Nov 08, 2011 4:00:15 pm PST #5497 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

It IS mandatory for person who work with children to report suspected or witnessed abuse to DFS and/or police. You can follow up, and follow up (I have reported and followed up exhaustively, both as a teacher and while wworking in the shelter system) but what happens in the investigation, by DFS/police, is out of your hands.

A lot of excellent, caring people fight the system every day, and sometimes win, often lose. But there are a lot of inept people within the system who fall down on their job, to the detriment of the children.

That said, I have been desperate to keep a job before. I have lived out of a car for a month in college; D and I almost lost the house.

But if I witnessed someone raping a child, not only would there be blood on the fucking CEILING I would happily lose my job because I screamed my bloody damned head off to get that dirtbag fired and/or prosecuted. If I didn't kill him with my bare hands.

I am not expressing hyperbole; I have NO personal doubts about my reaction. It's true at 39, and it would have been true when I was 22-24, as a grad student.


Hil R. - Nov 08, 2011 4:11:06 pm PST #5498 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

OK, what the hell? After Sandusky was barred from bringing kids on campus at the main Penn State campus, he was still organizing football camps for kids at some of the other Penn State campuses for several years.


meara - Nov 08, 2011 4:16:08 pm PST #5499 of 30001

Yeah, I find it inexplicable that you wouldn't just call the cops. But even if you don't call the cops, and instead report to your supervisor, when nothing happens, you don't follow up?!?


§ ita § - Nov 08, 2011 4:22:15 pm PST #5500 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

There must be a weird sort of, well, collegiate feeling bordering on Stockholm Syndrome that makes you go to your boss instead of the cops in that instance. What does the kid have to do with your boss? He's the one getting raped. Save him!

Izze! And I found an apple in my car. So I'm way ahead of yesterday, nutritionally. Also, some cornbread grabbed my eye in the store, so I'll see if I can actually stomach that.

That Walgreens app is totally freaking me out. CVS is just not cool enough.


Amy - Nov 08, 2011 4:32:20 pm PST #5501 of 30001
Because books.

I'm with Erin, though. I walk in and see a grown man raping a ten-year-old kid, I'm screaming for someone to call 911 until I'm hoarse, and probably jumping him just to get him off the kid.


Jesse - Nov 08, 2011 4:32:28 pm PST #5502 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

There is definitely a prevailing attitude in universities I've seen that you deal with even serious crimes internally, not with the local cops. Especially sex crimes. Of course, usually it's the rape of a peer, not a child.


Hil R. - Nov 08, 2011 4:32:31 pm PST #5503 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Student newspaper is tweeting from the rally going on at the administration building.

Student is loudly yelling, asking crowd why it is singing and dancing to Will Smith song given grave situation at hand. #PSUCharges


askye - Nov 08, 2011 4:35:47 pm PST #5504 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

I guess Penn State officials decided if it wasn't on the main campus it doesn't count?