It's simple. I slap 'em around a bit, torture 'em, make their lives hell...Sure, the nice guys'll run away,but every now and then you'll find a prince like Spike who gets off on it.

Buffy ,'Get It Done'


Natter 69: Practically names itself.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Maria - Oct 27, 2011 12:23:23 pm PDT #3496 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

msbelle, I am so sorry you have to deal with this. I hope you find something perfect for your situation and headspace right now.

Have you also thought about Starbucks? I know they offer health insurance to part-time partners working at least 20 hours a week. My best friend from college and her husband work for them now and rave about the company benefits. (They started off as baristas in college, moved up to managers, then district managers, and finally work at HQ in Seattle.)


msbelle - Oct 27, 2011 12:25:55 pm PDT #3497 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

well a Starbucks doesn't allow me as much leeway wrt direct constant contact with the public. I am pretty sure no-one wants that.


amyth - Oct 27, 2011 12:26:40 pm PDT #3498 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Good luck, msbelle. I hope you can get out of that situation ASAP.

They do not review my work, even if I provide it early and then are furious if they find errors when they are on a job site. I literally had to say today that I would not be able to guarantee never making a mistake.

That's just incredibly stressful. Everyone makes mistakes.


Maria - Oct 27, 2011 12:28:10 pm PDT #3499 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

well a Starbucks doesn't allow me as much leeway wrt direct constant contact with the public. I am pretty sure no-one wants that.

I'm sorry. I didn't realize that you were trying to minimize public contact. I'll step off.


Tom Scola - Oct 27, 2011 12:30:19 pm PDT #3500 of 30001
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

There's a new Hyperbole and a Half. Except it's not funny, and I'm trying hard to no cry at work right now.


Maria - Oct 27, 2011 12:35:19 pm PDT #3501 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Tom, I'd hug you if I could (and you'd accept). You are so much more than you give yourself credit for.


Allyson - Oct 27, 2011 12:40:14 pm PDT #3502 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I feel like touching a spider.


Liese S. - Oct 27, 2011 12:42:58 pm PDT #3503 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I could totally touch a spider.


Allyson - Oct 27, 2011 12:47:45 pm PDT #3504 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Cmon, scola. Come touch a spider with me!


Consuela - Oct 27, 2011 12:49:27 pm PDT #3505 of 30001
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

We have lots and lots of spiders around this fall for people to touch.

You know what I love about that comic? This comment down the page:

Wow. I never really understood what proper, actual depression felt like until this post. I think I've been a bit of a shit friend to my friends who have it. Soz dudes. :(

Ally is amazing and that comic is terribly sad but it's also awesome, and important.

{{hugs Tom}}