My sister just sent me the pictures from our...relative's (the precise relation is too complicated and also irrelevant) funeral a little while back. It's so sad that that's the reason all that side of the family got together--for the first time in about a decade, pretty much. But she got sent out well, that was good. They came together and saw her out with respect. And, shallowly, they looked good. They knew how to dress for an occasion, and the photographing cousin was adept.
As far as the harassment drama goes, the Dean of her area is going to officially accuse the student of having faked the letter, and also accuse her of harassment and start the procedures there. At the very least, they're going to try and send her to counselling, or penalise her formally.