Aww, you are not terrible. And he may still hate you, because he's like that and there's a reason you're divorcing. But couldn't it in theory be revisited when the kids are older? (Or if he gets deployed again and they have to stay with you 100% for a while?)
Jayne: Yeah, that was some pretty risky sittin' you did there. Wash: That's right, of course, 'cause they wouldn't arrest me if we got boarded, I'm just the pilot. I can always say I was flying the ship by accident.
'Serenity'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
meara - Mar 12, 2012 4:01:40 pm PDT #9564 of 30001
Zenkitty - Mar 12, 2012 4:13:22 pm PDT #9565 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Stephanie, you didn't do anything wrong. You wrote down the truth, and you gave a "nicer" version to the lawyers. It was their choice to use the unguarded version, and maybe they thought that was best. If he going to hate you, he just is, regardless of what you said about him; he'd come up with reasons no matter how nice you tried to be. I hope this all works out for the best, for the kids and for you.
Stephanie - Mar 12, 2012 4:13:30 pm PDT #9566 of 30001
Trust my rage
Yeah you are right. About everything actually.
Just like you can't make someone like you, I guess you can't stop them from hating you.
But I've always tried to live my life being kind to others. And it hurts to fail. But yeah, it's not all over.
Zenkitty - Mar 12, 2012 4:18:47 pm PDT #9567 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
You didn't fail. You were as kind as you could be. One of my toughest life lessons was learning that "being kind to others" isn't the same thing as "having people like you and try to understand you." It hurts when you try your best and they're still mean and angry, but that's not your fault.
sumi - Mar 12, 2012 4:21:36 pm PDT #9568 of 30001
Art Crawl!!!
Maria - thank goodness.
Juliana- what a lovely wedding you had! You two look so happy.
billytea - Ryan is such a lovely boy. What a pleasure to see him.
Stephanie - you did your best and you gave the attorneys the nice option. Let's face it: the future of your children is worth it.
le nubian - Mar 12, 2012 4:22:48 pm PDT #9569 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
Maria,
blessings. thanks for sharing the results.
sumi - Mar 12, 2012 4:25:34 pm PDT #9570 of 30001
Art Crawl!!!
My aunt phoned earlier this evening: guess what?
Her older sister (my other aunt on my father's side of the family) has diverticulosis.. .or whatever it's called. Of course, in her case they moved a large piece of her colon and she was fine.
Hil R. - Mar 12, 2012 4:38:06 pm PDT #9571 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
My ankle and knee are hurting less, but my head feels all floaty.
Hil R. - Mar 12, 2012 4:55:10 pm PDT #9572 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
Really dizzy now. I've never had this reaction to Vicodin before. Not sure what to do, other than sit very still so that the room doesn't fall down.
sj - Mar 12, 2012 4:56:54 pm PDT #9573 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Hil, is there something you can eat that wouldn't require you to cook? It might help.