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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Mar 10, 2012 8:06:46 am PST #9435 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Wishing you calmness and advocacy~ma, Tep.

sumi, I don't know what all that means, but I'm glad you're making progress towards a diagnosis and treatment.

Went to Doggies and Donuts, went to the park, played in a bounce house, and I need to go to the farmer's market but I'm so tired. Didn't sleep well last night, want a nap. Somebody motivate me!

Oh, and filed under "always think you might be wrong", StW did crash out last night - there seems to be some text delay going on in the city, not sure why. Lots of UK Wildcat fans use Verizon, maybe?


Vortex - Mar 10, 2012 8:28:24 am PST #9436 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Solar flares. Seriously.


Laura - Mar 10, 2012 8:38:27 am PST #9437 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Good to hear you have responsive capable care, sumi. I hope they are able to resolve the issues quickly.

{{Teppy}} I can imagine how frustrated you must be.

Each time I have been in the advocate role with loved ones' medical care I can't help but worry for all those that don't have someone to advocate for them. It requires so much time and effort to fight the providers, and the insurance companies, and of course the patient is too sick to be able to deal with it all. Our system is so uneven and difficult to maneuver through.

Today was fun here. We had a parade. The mayor, city council person, HS marching band, step-team, basketball team, cheerleaders, football team, principal, teacher, and parents. We looped about a mile in the neighborhood around school then had a celebration at school.

One the speakers was 85 year old woman who grew up here and went to the school back when it was called the Pompano Negro Grammar School. The school was only open 6 months a year at that time so that the children could tend crops. She went on to get her doctorate and was on the school board for 40 years. Mind blowing the changes she has witnessed in her life.


Liese S. - Mar 10, 2012 9:26:19 am PST #9438 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

The solar flares have been seriously messing with me since basically everything I do is online through cel technology. I have decided from now on I'm going to blame everything on solar flares.


§ ita § - Mar 10, 2012 9:32:12 am PST #9439 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Sun! Don't take our Liese away from us! We need her!

Suddenly I have a vision of Apollo bukkake. Sorry about that, guys.


lisah - Mar 10, 2012 9:33:17 am PST #9440 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

The doctor who failed for a year to diagnose my mother's cancer is presenting at a cancer convention thingamajiggy on diagnosing colon cancer. The plan is to get my mother seated in the front row, and to get up and walk out as soon as he starts to talk.

Oh my fucking god. I am forever grateful to Bob's doctor for sending him to get scoped RiGHT AWAY when he reported his symptoms even though he had no family history of colon cancer and was way too young to generally get the disease. We were really, really lucky.

Each time I have been in the advocate role with loved ones' medical care I can't help but worry for all those that don't have someone to advocate for them.

I worry about this a lot too. Because no matter how well meaning and how competent the med staff are there is going to be something that slips through the cracks. You have to be so vigilant and not afraid to speak up. Like something as stupid as when, the day after Bob's big surgery, the kitchen sent up a regular lunch for him although he was meant to be on clear liquids still. I mean, we knew right away it was wrong and fixed it but how many people wouldn't even be able to do that?


§ ita § - Mar 10, 2012 9:36:25 am PST #9441 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

My mother was so obviously sick. She'd lost enough weight to be lighter than me and my sister, which is just NOT ON. She'd been scanned from head to toe, and he'd looked at images of her colon, but just not interpreted the mass. In fact, he didn't until a new doctor pointed it out. At which point she was pretty much being rushed into surgery. Oh, he was apologetic, but what the fuck?


Sean K - Mar 10, 2012 9:38:24 am PST #9442 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Aw. Moebius has died.


sumi - Mar 10, 2012 9:42:47 am PST #9443 of 30001
Art Crawl!!!

Well, it seem as though I'll be here a second night and when a nurse came in to give me meds I got a new one to handle acid. So, that must be part of my new regimen.

I'm feeling really lucky right now.

(BTW, JZ - I loved the Clydesdales - that was perfect.)

Win: I kind of figured out the keyboard so I am computing on the flatscreen tv.


Laura - Mar 10, 2012 9:42:55 am PST #9444 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

That is really inexcusable. She did the right thing, saw the doctor, had tests done. If he didn't see a problem he should have asked for another consult right away.

Do you and your family have confidence in your mother's current medical team?