I am Burrell in this. I also don't share a bathroom with anyone, so it is all on me.

I vote TP over, cabinets closed, and glasses whichever way you want them (I usually do them right side up, but understand the turned over way...)

Oh, and if you make the bed, sweet. But don't tuck all the sheets tightly in, because that's where my feet go, and it's uncomfortable when you have to fight the sheets to not be squishing your feet. Also, I often like to stick my feet out from the sheets, so...

CLOSE YOUR CABINETS, PEOPLE!

(I have walked into more than a few cabinet doors with my face)

I do not get what the big deal about over or under TP is.

My ex contended that something might fall in them.

Living in AZ in a decrepit, no longer well-sealed trailer, dust was the thing I worried about getting into glasses. Here, we have our glasses right-side-up, but the mugs are up-side-down for easier stacking.

Sail, I'm so sorry to hear about Tucker.

Fourteen months into Intuitive Eating (eat what you want, when you want, as much as you want, but pay attention to signals from your body about those; take time to notice how things make you feel as you eat them as well as how you feel after), and I am down 41 lbs. This is in spite of the fact that I still freak out about how eating like this is going to make me gain tons of weight. Every time the doctor has me get on the scale, I expect it to go up, but it keeps going down. At this rate, my turn to be young and pretty and skinny will start when I am 47.

Even if it does turn around and bite me in my copious ass, I will never diet again. Y'all know the saying, "one definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results". They let me out of the hospital. That means I'm not anymore.

In my house, the house rules are: don't close an open door (you'll probably trap a cat) and don't leave a closed door open; put it back where it was; and don't wear outside shoes inside.

WRT TP, I am Tep and Sean. When Hec accused me of gaslighting him, I had absolutely no idea what he could possibly be talking about. I have a slight tendency toward under, because my cats seemed to have a slightly more difficult time batting at it and unrolling the entire roll that way, but since I hadn't had cats since I moved in with him I was just doing it out of mindless habit and had never even noticed that he did it differently.

At least, now, if I ever really do decide to gaslight him, I know exactly how to do it.

In my house glasses are upside down, the toilet paper goes on the roll, not on the counter next to the roll, and if the sheet comes untucked it means you can play cocoon.

Good on you, Andi! If that's what works for you, then it works. I can't stand it when doctors or nosey parkers think they know how your body is going to respond in any given situation.

I feel it's far more likely that there's dust on the floor of the cabinet, which will get on the rim of the glass like margarita salt.

Exactly.

I do not get what the big deal about over or under TP is.

If it's under, you have to pull harder, and the spring-loaded thing comes off.

Andi, that's wonderful! You're already beautiful, and you deserve to feel good, and feel good about yourself.