Don't you just love this party? Everything's so fancy, and there's some kind of hot cheese over there.

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Hil R. - Oct 08, 2011 6:33:08 am PDT #827 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

you are the best judge of what is best. I think of religion as serving community spiritual needs as well as individual. I am not sure on which pole your needs lie right now, but if it is fellowship, then I say go to the synagogue. If it isn't, then stay at home.

Right now, I think my needs are more individual. I don't really know anybody at the synagogue near here, anyway -- I go to services there once in a while, and there are usually about 10 people at weekly services, and a few hundred at holiday services.

Is there any kind of bending-the-rules sub-rule about fasting when you're sick with something that fasting will make worse?

Yeah. This isn't at that level, though.

Isn't there something in the Torah about health, Hil? I can't imagine anyone could think you're a bad Jew for eating to avoid health risks.

It's not about what other people think, it's about what I think. And for now, anyway, staying home and fasting is what's working best for me.


Pix - Oct 08, 2011 6:36:23 am PDT #828 of 30001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Sorry, I didn't mean to imply you were concerned with what others thought. Of course you should do what is right for you and your faith.


Laura - Oct 08, 2011 6:42:17 am PDT #829 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Easy fast, Hil. It sounds to me like staying home is the best plan.

Sorry about the nightmares! The thing that is making me happy as I watch the news loops this morning at work is the Occupy Wall Street peoples. It may be the old hippie in me, but it is about time people took to the streets. Also, we have had rain and storms last night and today and my windows are open for the first time since last Spring. It is a beautiful thing.


Hil R. - Oct 08, 2011 7:03:37 am PDT #830 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I read the readings at home. I like the one from Isaiah about the true meaning of fasting. [link]


smonster - Oct 08, 2011 7:27:43 am PDT #831 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Sounds like the right call, Hil.

amyth, hope your head has stopped bleeding. Can you fashion a butterfly bandage from tape?

Laura, he's immature, completely lacking in common sense, off his ADHD meds that he's been taking for five years, may have bipolar disorder (runs in family, and I can see it), and feeding himself for the first time (lots of blood sugar crashes). And there's a stressful family situation back home, and everyone harps on his youth all the time. It's a panoply of clusterfuck.


omnis_audis - Oct 08, 2011 7:28:12 am PDT #832 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Hil, is liquids restricted in your fasting? Maybe a bottle of Ensure? Not that you have one handy, but maybe something to get for the next fasting.


Stephanie - Oct 08, 2011 7:42:48 am PDT #833 of 30001
Trust my rage

My kids are upstairs playing the Wii. Frisco is not supposed to be playing the Wii, but they are being super quiet with the door shut, so I'm not complaining. Just pretending I don't know.


Pix - Oct 08, 2011 10:02:52 am PDT #834 of 30001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Hey, it’s Omnis’ birthday today (and it’s a significant one)! Happy Birthday, sweetie!


Laura - Oct 08, 2011 10:20:59 am PDT #835 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Happy Birthday to Omnis! Any fun plans to celebrate?


smonster - Oct 08, 2011 10:40:08 am PDT #836 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Happy birthday, Omnis!!