-t is very wise.
And you're not ever, ever going to be given up on here. Ever.
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P.M. Marc - Feb 13, 2012 9:02:52 pm PST #7307 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Connie Neil - Feb 13, 2012 9:07:54 pm PST #7308 of 30001
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A young friend of mine lost his wife six months after the wedding. She had various health problems, but they weren't able to figure out what the specific cause was.
But whatever they find, Maria, it was not your fault. Nothing. None of it. Even if you fought, he loved you, and it wasn't something either of you had any control over.
Pix - Feb 13, 2012 9:10:13 pm PST #7309 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.
I hate that -t speaks from experience but love that she is willing to do so. And her advice is so good.
juliana - Feb 13, 2012 9:40:07 pm PST #7310 of 30001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
Maria, so much love to you, cara mia.
Shir - Feb 13, 2012 9:40:51 pm PST #7311 of 30001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Maria,
I'm so, so sorry. The news was absolutely heartbreaking, and I can't even imagine how it is now for you. Please listen to the wise folks here, and take whatever you can from them.
And in case this need to be said again - this absolutely was not your fault. Not ever.
Also, you're not alone, even really late at (your) night. I'm at work (daytime in Israel), but I'll be around in case you're here.
Again, I'm so sorry.
Shir - Feb 13, 2012 9:43:55 pm PST #7312 of 30001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
And in its own post:
ChiKat, I'm sorry to hear about your cat. From what I've been through with my dog, I know that comes a time where you just know. But I have no idea if cats are that different than dogs.
Anyhow, {{ChiKat}}. It's a rough place.
Liese S. - Feb 13, 2012 9:45:22 pm PST #7313 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
Yay buffistas round the globe. Glad you've got the US night shift covered, Shir.
Shir - Feb 13, 2012 9:56:26 pm PST #7314 of 30001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Glad you've got the US night shift covered, Shir.
Always. To me, you are family.
Sparky1 - Feb 14, 2012 1:26:11 am PST #7315 of 30001
Librarian Warlord
I'm so sorry, Maria. I'm thinking of you and wishing you strength for these difficult days. You are loved, and we'll be here.
Anne W. - Feb 14, 2012 1:44:15 am PST #7316 of 30001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
{{{Maria}}}}
You'll be in my thoughts. I wish I knew what else to say.