Well, we may not have parted on the best of terms. I realize certain words were exchanged. Also, certain... bullets. But that's air through the engine. It's past. We're business people.

Mal ,'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Oct 02, 2011 5:31:11 am PDT #551 of 30001
Mostly lurking...

I think, I hope--knock wood--that this will just be a regular year for us.

I hope that for you too! Though, I've decided that there is no such thing as "normal" for me. DF keeps saying, "When things settle down...." And I finally said the other day, "Honey, I don't think things are ever going to settle down."


Burrell - Oct 02, 2011 5:38:08 am PDT #552 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I know what you mean, it's that difference between good stressors and changes (like oh say getting engaged!) and just plain hard ones.


vw bug - Oct 02, 2011 5:41:40 am PDT #553 of 30001
Mostly lurking...

Exactly. There's been some hard stuff too (being unemployed, Toto getting diagnosed with diabetes, and his dad being in the hospital for a week, for example). But, for now, it really is a little easier with someone else around.


Shir - Oct 02, 2011 6:09:38 am PDT #554 of 30001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

DF keeps saying, "When things settle down...." And I finally said the other day, "Honey, I don't think things are ever going to settle down."

Allow me to quote omnis, from an email exchange back in August:

omnis: Shir, dunno how to tell you this, but you are always busy. Not sure you'd know what to do if you weren't busy.

Me: Lies and evil lies and some more lies. I come in the forms of Busy, Busy as Hell, (Somewhat) Less Busy, Meh and Procrastinating.

And my ~mas to those of you who in need for them. I'm trying to catch up, but too afraid to forget anyone in individual ~ma requests.


smonster - Oct 02, 2011 7:57:55 am PDT #555 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

SHIR!!! ::tacklehugs::

I come in the forms of Busy, Busy as Hell, (Somewhat) Less Busy, Meh and Procrastinating.

Ahahahaha!

Your friend doesn’t even know yet… Apparently he wasn’t at work on Thursday or Friday.

I nearly sent him a message on fb right away, but didn't. I love how small the world is.

amyth, yes, she's in the final round.


amyth - Oct 02, 2011 8:07:09 am PDT #556 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

amyth, yes, she's in the final round.

Yeah it's a judgment call, depending on how much she's making now, how much she likes her current job, etc. What I told N. was that I would (and did) steer anyone I liked away from that office until B. came along. He made it work. So, for a certain personality type, it's possible. And the money's better than what we made/I'm making. Idk.

I may have seen her resume/portfolio. Weird.


smonster - Oct 02, 2011 9:43:38 am PDT #557 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

And the money's better than what we made/I'm making. Idk.

Grrr... insert rant here.

Her initials are MF, I met her through dance.


amyth - Oct 02, 2011 10:18:11 am PDT #558 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Yep. More money. Consider it hazard pay. It helps. Yep. I only read one resume before I took myself off the list, and it was hers.


smonster - Oct 02, 2011 10:49:57 am PDT #559 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

True, I wouldn't have lasted a month at any pay with her.

I am at the courtyard with Nora, watching the Saints. There are about fifteen adults, ten kids, and seven dogs. Delightful.


Shir - Oct 02, 2011 11:50:01 am PDT #560 of 30001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Ohh, smonster! Good to be (partly) back!