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'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Jan 02, 2012 12:16:47 pm PST #5133 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

They have a custody agreement, which was 2 weeks with him, 2 weeks with her.

It hasn't been continuous because my brother has bent over backward trying to make sure it would be nice.

He put his foot down when the XSIL announced she and her fiance were moving to Seattle, and, by the way, taking my nephew with them. The move to be closer is part of that agreement.

I don't know first hand how my XSIL treats my nephew. I don't communicate with her in anyway.

I know that she decided being a wife and mother was too much for her. So she moved out. To a different state five hours away and didn't want to see my nephew at all, except maybe once a month. Which is pretty much what she did until she met her now fiance (and "soulmate"). I know when she decided she did want to be a mom and want E up there, and E started going up there, she'd call because E would stand in front of the door for hours crying saying over and over he wanted his daddy and to go home.

E doesn't do that now, but he still cries when has to go spend time with her. He's happy when he sees my brother.

At the beach when I saw him last E said he missed the dog, I asked if he missed mommy and he said NO!. That's the only time I ever broached the subject.

I wasn't asking for advice or a big lecture anything.

I just thought I'd throw out that a few thoughts or prayers would be nice and appreciated.


smonster - Jan 02, 2012 12:17:03 pm PST #5134 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Gnnerrgh. Despite my medium efforts (I won't say best) I overspent over the holidays and now have, oh, $10 until mid-month. And possibly no more after that, since it's a paycheck for one week's pay.

I am fighting a panic attack. I think I'm PMS-ing. I keep reminding myself that at least my debt didn't increase, but I'm still at rock bottom financially and haven't built up any safety cushion at all. I got out and walked Frankie to get some fresh air and hopefully change my mood, but to no avail.

Back at looking at short-term ways to make more money - I really don't think I can handle another job, but maybe making and selling crafts? ::sigh::


smonster - Jan 02, 2012 12:18:41 pm PST #5135 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

askye, I hope they can work something out. Sounds like a very tough situation - I hope XSiL gets a clue.


askye - Jan 02, 2012 12:20:28 pm PST #5136 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

The idea of my brother having E on the weekends only was this - my brother will be going to school and working part time. E will be in pre school. So by having E Friday afternoon - Monday morning (dropping off at pre school) my brother would get more awake hours with E than spending every other week.

Which make sense.

Growing up my brother and I saw my dad every other weekend and on Wednesdays. I hated the Wednesdays and it was finally dropped. My mom was always amiable for Dad to see my brother and I as often as he wanted, but he didn't really do more than that.


askye - Jan 02, 2012 12:25:16 pm PST #5137 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

I keep hoping she will too.


Steph L. - Jan 02, 2012 12:30:21 pm PST #5138 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

It is 19.95 for THREE POUNDS (to better understand my outrage, I will mention that 2 pounds of AP flour usually costs less than two dollars). They are really taking advantage of people's love of carbs.

GF flour ain't cheap, but Thomas Keller's new flour is definitely on the high end. The GF AP flour I use is $4 for 2 pounds; the GF baking mix I use (which has baking powder, salt, etc., in it; it's similar to Bisquik) is $13 for 4 pounds.

I'd like to try Keller's flour, to see if it's All That, but no way am I spending $20 for 3 pounds. I wonder how much of the price is because it's his super-special name on the label.


Vortex - Jan 02, 2012 1:34:03 pm PST #5139 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I wonder how much of the price is because it's his super-special name on the label.

I'm going to go with "most"


Dana - Jan 02, 2012 3:20:18 pm PST #5140 of 30001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I have Ativan, woohoo. I think I may test-drive it tonight so I know how it affects me, rather than have some kind of unintentional drug-induced hilarity at the funeral.


Burrell - Jan 02, 2012 3:23:26 pm PST #5141 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I'm all for trying it out, but I don't think it'll make you feel drugged. I've only taken it twice, but it didn't alter me, it just helped me keep my cool instead of flipping out like a mammal.


Dana - Jan 02, 2012 3:24:46 pm PST #5142 of 30001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I mostly have visions of falling asleep at a bad time. If it's going to make me drowsy, I'd like to know how much.