Well, if we followed the recipe...should be cake. A demon-violence-free-zone cake.

Lorne ,'Why We Fight'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Cass - Dec 21, 2011 9:13:13 pm PST #4524 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

My aunt makes almond roca. That is heavenly Christmas noms for me.


Typo Boy - Dec 21, 2011 10:33:53 pm PST #4525 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Dinner for my Mom's 90th Birthday (the 21st) was lamb shanks braised in mint and rosmary infused wine.


Ginger - Dec 22, 2011 3:21:04 am PST #4526 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Bonny, I can't possibly express how sorry I am.

You did two very hard things for him: you fought the good fight and you let him go.


WindSparrow - Dec 22, 2011 3:40:42 am PST #4527 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

bonny, I'm so sorry about Bartleby. Please do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself, and come back whenever you feel ready. (I don't know if you will, or expect you to, read this but if you do not, then I hope you still feel all the love we have for you.)


billytea - Dec 22, 2011 3:47:01 am PST #4528 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Bonny, I'm so very sorry.


smonster - Dec 22, 2011 3:58:37 am PST #4529 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

You did two very hard things for him: you fought the good fight and you let him go.

What Ginger said. I cried some yesterday when I got the news, and cried again today reading your post. Remember that there are no "shoulds" in grief - you feel how you feel. There will be plenty of time to remember the joy, right now you are feeling the loss, for it is enormous. My heart aches for you.


Shir - Dec 22, 2011 3:59:25 am PST #4530 of 30001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

bonny, I'm lost for words. I'm very, very sorry. And yes, what WS said: please take care of yourself.


DavidS - Dec 22, 2011 4:02:18 am PST #4531 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

What a grievous loss, bonny. You moved the world on its axis to do everything you could to save him. But it was the right choice to let him go. I am very saddened by your news, and my heart goes out to you.


hippocampus - Dec 22, 2011 4:18:38 am PST #4532 of 30001
not your mom's socks.

So very sorry Bonny. Wishing you much comfort.


Fred Pete - Dec 22, 2011 4:35:47 am PST #4533 of 30001
Ann, that's a ferret.

((((bonny)))) I had a post ready to go in my head, but Hec said it just as well or even better. So

You moved the world on its axis to do everything you could to save him. But it was the right choice to let him go. I am very saddened by your news, and my heart goes out to you.