{{{{{Pix & ND}}}}} I'm so sorry about Byron.
I spent 6 hours in a car with my real estate agent looking at houses and having to make conversation. We saw nothing good, and I'm beyond exhausted now.
Love isn't brains, children, it's blood, blood screaming inside you to work its will.
Spike ,'Sleeper'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
sj - Dec 14, 2011 11:02:35 am PST #4209 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
JZ - Dec 14, 2011 11:21:00 am PST #4210 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
{{{Pix and ND}}} From all your stories, Byron has always sounded like such a dear, amazing creature, a cat for whom no amount of time would ever have been enough. You were the most loving humans he could have asked for. All possible comfort to you, and peace be on his memory.
P.M. Marc - Dec 14, 2011 11:50:51 am PST #4211 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Peace to you, K&D.
I am sorry.
Tep, King Arthur GF flour is the bomb-diggity.
Laura - Dec 14, 2011 1:28:56 pm PST #4212 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.
RIP, Byron. You have been in my thoughts all day, Pix & Drew. I hope you are being kind to yourselves tonight.
Anne W. - Dec 14, 2011 1:50:34 pm PST #4213 of 30001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
Pix and ND, I am so sorry about Byron. It's never enough time.
smonster - Dec 14, 2011 2:48:05 pm PST #4214 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I think we're going to have to fire Puppy Boy. ::sigh:: He probably averages at least one fireable offense a day. But the kicker is, he just doesn't get it. I've spent HOURS trying to figure out how to help him, typing stuff up, giving him resources, and I just don't see the effort I want to see. Instead I hear that he's complaining about our meetings. Firing him might even be doing him a favor, showing him some actual consequences, but there's no guarantee - he could well spin it as us being out to get him, or something.
On a brighter note, I had a meltdown over money last night (as some of you may have seen before I deleted the post). I'm still kind of hosed, but the good thing is that I laughed about it, cried a bit, worked on it some, and then went to bed. Just a couple of years ago I think it would have sent me into a very nasty depression and self-hating spiral. So yay for productivity over self-flagellation!
askye - Dec 14, 2011 3:40:25 pm PST #4215 of 30001
Thrive to spite them
Pix and Drew I'm so sorry about Byron, I know how hard it is.
quester - Dec 14, 2011 3:46:04 pm PST #4216 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
That's some serious progress, smonster. Seriously.
Nora Deirdre - Dec 14, 2011 3:50:21 pm PST #4217 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Yay, smonster! I am sorry that you're going through this money crap. Let me know if you need anything.
Ugh, something I ate today did not agree with me and whatever it was very violently exited my system. Do Not Want.
Typo Boy - Dec 14, 2011 3:56:00 pm PST #4218 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
smonster really sorry about the money thing, though glad you are dealing with it.
As to Puppy Boy. Consequences are all you can do. Up to him if he learns from it or not. Firing him is at least giving him a chance to learn. You have to do it for y'all, but it is the best thing for him as well.