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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


amyth - Sep 22, 2011 10:29:00 am PDT #42 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

I call bullshit. They're doing flu shot clinics here at work starting next Tuesday.


smonster - Sep 22, 2011 10:30:29 am PDT #43 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

sj, the flu vaccine changes every year; has the new one come out? That's still a weird thing to say, though, because flu season kicks in waaaay before February.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 22, 2011 10:31:18 am PDT #44 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Man, why people gotta lie alla the time?

Epic, I'm so very sorry about Domino.


sj - Sep 22, 2011 10:31:32 am PDT #45 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I have already gotten mine, and I would prefer that TCG get his before we get on sickness factory known as an airplane.


Sparky1 - Sep 22, 2011 10:31:53 am PDT #46 of 30001
Librarian Warlord

BS, sj. The CDC says to get a shot as soon as it is available because the flu season starts as early as October.


sj - Sep 22, 2011 10:36:07 am PDT #47 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

If I can tell him that the "smart people on the internet" (his term for buffistas) agree with me, maybe I can get him to get a flu shot at CVS or Walgreens, which are both offering them around here.


Toddson - Sep 22, 2011 10:37:56 am PDT #48 of 30001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

The lurkers really do support you in e-mail!


Connie Neil - Sep 22, 2011 10:39:43 am PDT #49 of 30001
brillig

My doctor told me not to get one until the end of October.


smonster - Sep 22, 2011 10:41:16 am PDT #50 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I can get him to get a flu shot at CVS or Walgreens, which are both offering them around here.

Just make sure he doesn't let them give it to him in the tendon, instead of the muscle!!


beekaytee - Sep 22, 2011 11:14:51 am PDT #51 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Skipping 30 new thread posts to echo sj's wisdom:

smonster, I have found that trying to interpret the thought process behind gifts only leads to driving yourself crazy.

I made a huge fuss over how bad my most significant other was at gift giving. I felt misunderstood and 'messaged' into a bad place by everything he gave me.

Looking back, I'm not sure what I was on about, except that I had an expectation of a certain amount of rejection and disappointment in my intimate relationships.

It turned out that what I was 'seeing' was not what I was seeing. I actually use everything he gave me, except for one expensive necklace that I just don't like. I think he actually thought he was doing a good thing, but missed the mark.

The truth is, there was no secret code in his gifts and, if I could have seen past my own insecurities, I could have been the person I fancy myself to be and been more appreciative...or at least less judgy.

Disappointment is so often not even remotely about the thing in front of you.