Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Ginger - Dec 13, 2011 5:54:44 pm PST #4170 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I'm glad the surgery went well, Brenda.

I'm have trouble with my dog patient, because I'm supposed to have him do slow walking, but since he is completely clueless about the leash, I don't know how to do that. The incision is healing well, but he's really favoring the leg. Also, he has fur on his feet and he slips on the floor. He really dislikes my attempts to trim his feet.

I don't know if I want a sanity check or just to whine. I have played trivia with the same people every Tuesday for eight years. Every year we've had a gift exchange and brought cookies for Christmas, and we'd normally do that next week. Some of the people have been friends since high school, and there have been several instances in the past in which they've been talking to each other and made decisions about the whole group. Apparently a husband and wife and one other friend were talking about it, and they decided not to do presents. The couple just announced tonight that we're not doing presents.

One, I've already bought a present that I thought would be entertaining, and it's not returnable. Two, I think the whole group should decide to change something we've done so long. The woman who announced we're not doing presents said, "I'm tired of hearing about people who complained about what they got." I've never complained or heard a complaint. It's not always something I want, but it's the luck of the draw. Anyway, now I feel depressed and like I'm still not really part of the group after all these years.


brenda m - Dec 13, 2011 5:58:15 pm PST #4171 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

How you tie and tuck the hijab actually has religious significance. Different ways of folding are indicative of belief or adherence. Which is more interesting than relevant, except that it's not like throwing on a bandana, which I can't manage either.


brenda m - Dec 13, 2011 6:01:29 pm PST #4172 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

That's really shitty, Ginger.


le nubian - Dec 13, 2011 6:17:23 pm PST #4173 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

I concur with brenda.

can we organize a gift exchange with you? I know the secret santas and slacker santas are doing their thing, but I'd be more than happy to enter into a Ginger gift exchange.

Fuck them.


Ginger - Dec 13, 2011 6:26:36 pm PST #4174 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

The last thing that was said was, "Well, bring your present and maybe someone else will bring one."

It's not the presents; it's once again feeling like I'm on the outside looking in.


le nubian - Dec 13, 2011 6:31:57 pm PST #4175 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

damn. way to get into the Christmas spirit.

I think you need to talk to them about this.


beth b - Dec 13, 2011 8:09:16 pm PST #4176 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

someone on facebook mentioned The bloggess- so I started reading

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the above link is from her sex column

let's set the alarm clock should not become a euphemism according to DH.

Not really safe for work - because you will be saying things out loud , even though you shouldn't.


Burrell - Dec 13, 2011 8:31:11 pm PST #4177 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I didn't realize she had a sex blog. Clearly I don't poke around her site enough.


WindSparrow - Dec 13, 2011 11:39:49 pm PST #4178 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

less happy news: mom now feels pressure and around her eye. MRI will happen as soon as possible.

Lots of ~ma for figuring out what is going on, and for getting it all sorted out. Plus some coping and peace~ma.

Pix and Drew, I'm sending warm thoughts and vibes for you, and for Byron, and for your whole household.

erika, stupid conditioning making you all conditioned to feel afraid in your living room just because you associate it with a rather nasty experience. I hope it fades into the background quickly

Ginger, what those people did was pretty crappy. I hope they can be reasoned with.


SailAweigh - Dec 14, 2011 3:34:10 am PST #4179 of 30001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

{{Ginger}} Sounds like those high school buddies haven't quite gotten past high school yet. I wonder if they even realize how casually cruel they are being? Do any of them take criticism well, or would it be fruitless to even mention it?

Shir, much ~ma to your mother. May the MRI provide some answers this time around.

{{Pix and Drew}} I'm so sorry about Byron. Peace~ma to him and you.

Paging Teppy! I think I've seen you rave about a pumpkin bread that you make. I'm pretty sure it's gluten free, and as such I'm hoping you've either shared the recipe here before and could point me to the post or would be willing to share it again. We've got a potluck at work next Monday and I'd like to bring a gluten free bakery product. We've got a significant number of folks with gluten problems at work and I never see any gluten free offerings when there are cakes/cookies/pies/etc.