We die horribly and painfully, you go to hell and I spend eternity in the arms of baby Jesus.

Gunn ,'Not Fade Away'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


billytea - Sep 27, 2011 6:37:30 am PDT #328 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Oh, I wanted to mention, because I am very proud of my son, I took Ryan to the playground on Sunday, where there were a couple of other little kids running around. We'd brought his soccer ball (he has a soccer ball) for kicks and throws. The other kids came up and wanted to play too, and rather than getting defensive or possessive, Ryan was very happy to play catch (or, more accurately, 'throw') with them. The staff at childcare tell me that he's very sociable with the other kids there too.

My fondest wish for Ryan (which is enshrined in his Chinese name) is that he grow up to be kind. He can be very shy around new people, although he's a bit of a showoff once he gets used to them. It makes me very happy to see him sharing so easily with other kids.

(One of the parental couples was in a very similar position to WB and myself. A couple around 40, the mother was from Japan rather than China, one boy, no plans for more. Also moved to the area only recently. So that's nice.)


sj - Sep 27, 2011 6:44:38 am PDT #329 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Ok, I have done everything that I can do why still chatting on the internet. My drag my ass out of the apartment now.


smonster - Sep 27, 2011 6:44:43 am PDT #330 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

My fondest wish for Ryan (which is enshrined in his Chinese name) is that he grow up to be kind.

I'm sure he will, just like his dad.

I am at work, finally.


amyth - Sep 27, 2011 6:44:49 am PDT #331 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Yay rail pass, sj!

Kate, I'll eat delicious bread and cheese, just for you. I'm selfless like that.

Zen, I hate that cheeping noise. It used to drive my dog nuts. Like, she had to leave the house nuts. But replacing the batteries did the trick for me, so I don't know.

Which reminds me: I've never replaced the batteries in my smoke detectors in my current apartment. Hmm.


Steph L. - Sep 27, 2011 6:46:59 am PDT #332 of 30001
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Which reminds me: I've never replaced the batteries in my smoke detectors in my current apartment. Hmm.

We found out the batteries in our smoke detector were dead a few months ago when I tried to pan-sear some scallops.

Better than finding out during a real inferno, I suppose.


Kate P. - Sep 27, 2011 6:48:45 am PDT #333 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Kate, I'll eat delicious bread and cheese, just for you. I'm selfless like that.

Aw, you're so good to me.

My fondest wish for Ryan (which is enshrined in his Chinese name) is that he grow up to be kind.

I love this, and feel much the same way about my future kids. And it sounds like you and Wallybee are doing a wonderful job of raising him. (So glad she found her wedding ring, by the way!)


amyth - Sep 27, 2011 6:49:31 am PDT #334 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Yikes, Tep.

Yeah, I should get on that. How long have I lived there? Two years? Three years? All the years blend together. Anyway, batteries.


Steph L. - Sep 27, 2011 6:51:09 am PDT #335 of 30001
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Yikes, Tep.

Like I said, better than a middle-of-the-night inferno. I like to think I pre-emptively saved our lives. (Better than focusing on my inability to sear scallops, damn it.)


amyth - Sep 27, 2011 6:52:36 am PDT #336 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

I'm saving my life by eating mostly take-out.


billytea - Sep 27, 2011 7:07:08 am PDT #337 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I love this, and feel much the same way about my future kids. And it sounds like you and Wallybee are doing a wonderful job of raising him. (So glad she found her wedding ring, by the way!)

He's doing well so far. It's just so much fun picking up on the little advances he makes. Back at the playground, he loves the slide; Sunday was when I first noticed that on the dismount, he now reliably lands on his feet.