Funny thing about black and white. You mix it together and you get gray. And it doesn't matter how much white you try and put back in, you're never gonna get anything but gray.

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beth b - Apr 14, 2013 2:25:42 pm PDT #28808 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

so I did not change my name, but I have know Matt for most of my life. To him, my name changine didn't make sense - muy name was my name. I'm not sure where it would have ended up if he did care.

I think that because Tim's family seems to see you as family - even before you were getting married it adds a different force behind the choice.


beth b - Apr 14, 2013 2:26:13 pm PDT #28809 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I love Ryan stories


JenP - Apr 14, 2013 2:43:02 pm PDT #28810 of 30001

Ditto re: Ryan highlights.


Zenkitty - Apr 14, 2013 2:43:30 pm PDT #28811 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Comic book art, Native American style. I love all of these.


Vortex - Apr 14, 2013 4:09:09 pm PDT #28812 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

If and when I ever get married, the name thing will be more of a dilemma for me. I had always thought that my name would be Vortex MaidenName HusbandName. I would be known professionally by all three names, but technically would be Vortex HusbandName. I liked the symbolism of the change, and with the idea of forming a distinct family unit with the new husband. But, between my bro changing his name (y'all may have chosen to forget that drama) and my dad being gone, I have a much bigger attachment to my current surname.


WindSparrow - Apr 14, 2013 4:50:27 pm PDT #28813 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I have been rather looking forward to a new surname - the current one being both common and that of a commonly imbibed beer, but I find that the new surname on offer is pretty much just as common (at least it is here in Minnesota) and I am not entirely certain I can be arsed to bother with getting all new paperwork and stuff. We'll see.

But if Daniel will go for Pond for both of us, I'll do it.


smonster - Apr 14, 2013 6:21:57 pm PDT #28814 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I'm kind of attached to my names because all together the meanings serve as a plot summary of Princess Bride.


meara - Apr 14, 2013 8:13:59 pm PDT #28815 of 30001

Vortex, I always giggle when I think of your brother and the name change. So bizarre.


Steph L. - Apr 15, 2013 5:07:27 am PDT #28816 of 30001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Regardless of what name I choose, today is the fun part of wedding planning: we get to taste cupcakes after work!


Kate P. - Apr 15, 2013 6:40:04 am PDT #28817 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I'm kind of attached to my names because all together the meanings serve as a plot summary of Princess Bride.

I am intrigued! I know your first name means "princess"...