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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laura - Mar 24, 2013 1:13:38 pm PDT #27863 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

{{Cass}} I moved when my dad was diagnosed with cancer to be near him. It was the best decision for me and my family. It is wonderful that your father was surrounded by love when he was ready to go. Really, what more can we ask for.

Please take care of yourself now. Loss can do a real number on your immune system. It will be hard to not overdo, but try and be gentle with yourself. Love you.


Anne W. - Mar 24, 2013 1:43:43 pm PDT #27864 of 30001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

{{{{Cass}}}}

I am so, so sorry. Much love and ~ma to you and yours.


Cass - Mar 24, 2013 2:03:48 pm PDT #27865 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

It is wonderful that your father was surrounded by love when he was ready to go. Really, what more can we ask for.

Given his situation, we were more than blessed. And having everyone there was good. This has been a long year and I know he struggled and had a lot of difficult situations but the end was peaceful so I am really grateful for that.

Being loved and knowing that you will be missed but that those left behind will take care of each other, it's the best we can ask.

I just miss my Dad.

There's a Facebook picture up that I really like. I'm not linking for privacy but I think everyone here knows how to find me (or ask). My sister put it up but my name brings it right up.


billytea - Mar 24, 2013 2:12:27 pm PDT #27866 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

My condolences to you and your family, Cass. Losing a parent is hard.


DebetEsse - Mar 24, 2013 2:33:18 pm PDT #27867 of 30001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

{{{{Cass}}}}


le nubian - Mar 24, 2013 2:38:33 pm PDT #27868 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

My condolences, Cass. I know the past several months have been really difficult for you and your family. I'm glad there was a peaceful exit. That's probably the best you could have hoped for.

Much 'ma for you all.


brenda m - Mar 24, 2013 2:41:39 pm PDT #27869 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Cass, I'm so very sorry. I'm glad you could be there this week.


brenda m - Mar 24, 2013 2:46:32 pm PDT #27870 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I spent the day at the Animal Welfare League intake center. That's always a tough day, though rewarding too. At least one of the dogs I spent time with will almost certainly not survive much longer. Pitt mix who is just super crazy hyperactive and more dog focused than people. And kennel cough. He's not barky, but that's about all he's got going for him. Another, also a pitt, was sweet as can be but so so terrified of everyone and everything. He's hopefully got a bit more promise.

I also bagged about 500 lbs of dog chow, so shoulders a little stiff. They do a food pantry for people who can't afford to buy food for their pets. Last time about 450 people showed up. In some ways that's one of the most effective things they can do to keep animals from being surrendered or abandoned.

Now to go hang with my actual dog for a while.


Polter-Cow - Mar 24, 2013 3:02:23 pm PDT #27871 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

I'm sorry, Cass. {{Cass}}


askye - Mar 24, 2013 3:03:30 pm PDT #27872 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

Cass I'm so sorry. Peace and love to you and your family.