I kissed him, and I told him that I loved him. And I killed him.

Buffy ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Zenkitty - Mar 18, 2013 6:21:24 pm PDT #27586 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Regarding Mirena: I'm a big wimp, and I found insertion uncomfortable but not really painful. Like, no sharp pains, just a weird what-the-hell feeling. I haven't had kids, but it was one day after my period stopped. There was no lingering discomfort after. I had mild cramps for a day, and that was it. Even if it had been more painful, it would have been worth it, though!


askye - Mar 18, 2013 6:32:30 pm PDT #27587 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

A friend of mine said it hurt worse getting it taken out.

Instead of going for the copper only IUD I'm going to have a tubal occlusion at the end of the month.


DebetEsse - Mar 18, 2013 6:33:55 pm PDT #27588 of 30001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Mid July. I think we get there on the 12th? (I don't have my phone near me, so I can't check.)

That is when I will be there! We should meet up at some point (because that's what I do when I go to distant places: meet up with people I know from different distant places than the place I am in)


Atropa - Mar 18, 2013 6:36:20 pm PDT #27589 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

That is when I will be there! We should meet up at some point (because that's what I do when I go to distant places: meet up with people I know from different distant places than the place I am in)

Ooooh! This is a good plan!


WindSparrow - Mar 18, 2013 6:39:22 pm PDT #27590 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Vortex - Mar 18, 2013 6:39:40 pm PDT #27591 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

The good news is that my blood work is normal, and last week's PET scan didn't show any spread outside my bones, which is about as good as I can hope for.

WOOOOT!

Is your friend someone with whom you could say, "Swing by the Red Lion when you're ready to see the Museum"?

My friend is, totally. But I don't know anything about the other person. And that's the rub. I've traveled with or known people who have to be ALLTOGETHERALLOFTHETIME, so that's annoying.

I'm just annoyed because I really wanted to go with her and see the Dames in the West End, and it's not going to happen because of this other friend. Not annoyed at my friend, just the universe for fucking up my flow.

My favorite thing is to go to the British Museum and take breaks ordering their best bitter at the Museum Pub, which is about a block away.

Is that the one on Great Russell St? I love that place *sniff* and then when we get peckish, we could go to Wagamama for ramen.

On the honeymoon trip we went to the V&A, The National Gallery, The Tate Modern, and Courtauld Gallery

Yes, Yes, Yes, and never been, but now I'm intrigued.

That is when I will be there! We should meet up at some point (because that's what I do when I go to distant places: meet up with people I know from different distant places than the place I am in)

Ooooh! This is a good plan!

Hmmm. I was bummed that I wasn't going with my friend, but this could end up working out as well . . .


meara - Mar 18, 2013 6:42:38 pm PDT #27592 of 30001

I"m home from Mexico! Really seriously don't want to go to work tomorrow. Jealous that Brenda was still there all day. :)

Catching up on Amazing Race and making my roommate put aloe on my back. Woo, good times.


DebetEsse - Mar 18, 2013 6:45:55 pm PDT #27593 of 30001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Hmmm. I was bummed that I wasn't going with my friend, but this could end up working out as well . . .

Eleventy! I move that we approve this amendement to the plan as stated!


Atropa - Mar 18, 2013 6:53:50 pm PDT #27594 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Hmmm. I was bummed that I wasn't going with my friend, but this could end up working out as well . . .

Hee! That would be fantastic.


Strix - Mar 18, 2013 8:42:08 pm PDT #27595 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Does anyone have experience with CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy?)

My depression is embiggening...and my DH,and my 3 BFFs (one sober alcoholic, a therapist friend, and a friend whose DH went through the same thing)staged an intervention tonight because of I am abusing pills: Xanax, Ambien. But NEVER, EVER when the kiddo is staying. I'm not mad at them; I know they love me, but

I'll delete this tomorrow, and I will be calling around to find a doc who used CBT, and treats depression and addiction.

I understand it's late, and people might not wish to share here, but I can be reached at my profile addy.

I am begging for information, support on-line support forums...and hope...links to resources, whatever.

I apologize to anyone I have hurt, and hope you can forgive me. I hope one day to forgive myself.

I feel like I just ripped my heart out and showed it to you. My meatspace friends are wonderful, but they are not always available, and you all are wonderful support, and veritable fonts of knowledge.

I have been staring at this post for 10 minutes; nervous, scared -- TMI? Will you ever respect me again?

But here goes...

Thank you all.