I-I'm just taking things without paying for th... In what twisted dictionary is that stealing?

Willow ,'Showtime'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Feb 25, 2013 8:41:30 am PST #26716 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Aww, what a cutie!!


le nubian - Feb 25, 2013 8:48:22 am PST #26717 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

yeah, that's Buffy alright.


Laura - Feb 25, 2013 11:31:58 am PST #26718 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Awww, clearly it was meant to be.


Maria - Feb 25, 2013 12:02:00 pm PST #26719 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Congrats, Hil!

Saw the outlaws today. My tax prep appointment at the accountant was immediately after theirs. My MOL (mother-out-law) was cordial, but my FOL wouldn't (couldn't?) even look me in the eye. Didn't say a fucking word. And you know what? I am A-OK with that. They don't matter any more. It's not going to bring him back. If blaming me helps, then fine. I can handle it.

Thank you for helping me find the strength to do so.


Liese S. - Feb 25, 2013 12:14:59 pm PST #26720 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

So hard, Maria, but yes, you did and are doing the best thing you can for yourself and ultimately for them. Of course they're grieving too, and it's a shame they're taking it out on you in such a negative way, but you're right, you don't have to let it affect your life.


Maria - Feb 25, 2013 12:20:50 pm PST #26721 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Liese, this is a huge revelation for me. In the past, I'd be worrying myself sick over it. Now? I feel sorry for them, but I am not the bad guy in this. I need to move forward and live my life.


Amy - Feb 25, 2013 12:24:45 pm PST #26722 of 30001
Because books.

Buffy is adorable!

I feel sorry for them, but I am not the bad guy in this. I need to move forward and live my life.

That's huge, Maria. I'm so glad you're getting there.


Liese S. - Feb 25, 2013 12:36:28 pm PST #26723 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Liese, this is a huge revelation for me.

Yeah, it's a biggie for sure. And one easier said than done. But good on you, and your future you thanks you for it!


Burrell - Feb 25, 2013 12:38:29 pm PST #26724 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Good for you, Maria.


Cass - Feb 25, 2013 12:59:31 pm PST #26725 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Of course they're grieving too, and it's a shame they're taking it out on you in such a negative way, but you're right, you don't have to let it affect your life.

Very much this. They are grieving but I'm so sorry it is hurting you, Maria. And you are wonderful and deserve to live your life.