Mal: Gotta say, doctor, your talent for alienatin' folk is near miraculous. Simon: Yes, I'm very proud.

'Safe'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Feb 04, 2013 3:47:20 pm PST #25909 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

There are always tiaras for those who want them.

sj, I remember the awesome feeling of having paid off a car. Congrats to you! And phooey on your cable company.

Steph, I'm glad your dental anxiety was just unfounded crazy for the most part.

Glamcookie, is this maybe just a cultural thing about time? I recognize it's frustrating as hell, but it may be that they actually don't regard time the same way. So if you shift it later... they'll just be late for that. Or they could be inconsiderate a-holes, who knows. But I am epically terrible with time, and am therefore grateful to now live in a culture where it's more permissible to be late.


smonster - Feb 04, 2013 3:48:50 pm PST #25910 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Xpost with Bev. Hi Bev! Your stew sounds tasty! I'm thinking of making a lentil/sweet potato curry stew in the slow cooker tomorrow. It's good to bank some leftovers before the parade madness really kicks in (Wednesday night).


Steph L. - Feb 04, 2013 3:55:07 pm PST #25911 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Mmmm, kielbasa.


Beverly - Feb 04, 2013 4:07:35 pm PST #25912 of 30001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

One of my Tumblr tags is "pantry", because I love looking at stacks of dishes and ranks of plates, the colors and shapes and sizes, and we all know I'm weird, so just go with it, okay? And also, the different ways people arrange a pantry: some with food in carefully labeled uniform containers, some in bins with a podge of bags and boxes sorted into each bin, some with jars and cans just jammed anywhere there's room on the shelves. And of course, the butler's pantries, with the dishes and glassware. From Ikea shelving to vintage painted or polished cabinets, from clip-on lamps to tasteful hidden display lighting. I'm intrigued by pantries.

H makes a lot of soups, and we always stock up on canned veg and various beans when there are sales. My diet prohibits potatoes and tomatoes, and wheat, so we have pastas made of various other grains, plus millet, barley, buckwheat, and brown, basmati, and jasmine rice on hand all the time. We love having a pantry. I just go in there sometimes and bask.

I don't cook, much. But I eat really, really well. And I do praise like nobody's business.

I said I had no news, right?


Cass - Feb 04, 2013 4:35:38 pm PST #25913 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

And I understand that grandma loves the kid and thinks she is a better parent.

Love the kid all she might, she's not the legal guardian. Until and unless it goes to court, she's got nothing but anger.

But, ugh, what a thing to have to go through.

We are hoping that her internet research and discussions with people that will talk to her has convinced her that a custody pursuit would be fruitless. She has a very volatile nature and it would not shock me if in just a few days she was all sweetness and light and acted like it was her idea for the child to move in with her mother.

It's not really the emotionally healthiest thing but this would actually probably be for the best. Unless she really wants to sue for custody, smile and move on. If the only way she can do that is to pretend it was her idea, it still ends the same.

What a traumatic thing for everyone. Laura, you did awesome getting the legal facts and then getting things resolved. Much better for the girl.

Families are so stressful.


Laura - Feb 04, 2013 4:49:06 pm PST #25914 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

You should have no news more often! I enjoyed the glimpse into your pantry, madam.

So my brother stopped by to visit my mother and she was massively relieved. She was convinced he was going to be devastated and depressed and he was ok. (His MS drugs have bad depression side affects) He reported with shy pleasure that his former FIL called him to say he was on his side. Then my niece stopped by with her kids because my step-dad texted her that he was at their house. Then my sister told me that she talked to him on the phone and he was way more talkative than usual. I feel more hopeful for him than I have for some time.


Cass - Feb 04, 2013 4:52:15 pm PST #25915 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

What a lovely thing to hear after a really, really hard day, Laura.


quester - Feb 04, 2013 5:25:00 pm PST #25916 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

I hope your very neccessary intervention continues to bear positive fruit, Laura.

I don't know how to spell nessessary.

I may have had a couple of cocktails.


Laura - Feb 04, 2013 5:36:19 pm PST #25917 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Whee, cocktails! I am grateful to be back on my laptop at the moment because my Nook doesn't give me those nice red squiggly clues that I am misspelling things. I treasure the red squiggly clues.


smonster - Feb 04, 2013 5:53:45 pm PST #25918 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

For my soup tomorrow I'm thinking of dumping dried green lentils, roasted sweet potatos, jarred tomato sauce, uncooked rice, water, and curry powder/salt/pepper into the slow cooker in the morning. I figured I'd fine tune seasonings and add spinach when I get home. Sound like it might turn out okay? Should I cook the rice separately?