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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

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sj - Feb 02, 2013 5:46:38 am PST #25832 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I just got some of my blood test results back and I am almost but not totally immune to chicken pox. So now I need to decide if I want to be immunized before continuing to try to conceive. It would be 60 days before we could try again. If anyone here has experience with this and has any advice, I would be happy to hear it.


Cass - Feb 02, 2013 6:20:36 am PST #25833 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

It's not something I'm probably supposed to have an opinion on but vaccinate. Two months feels like a long time but herd immunity keeps your future child along with many others safe. Think of the two months versus the long life of your child.


Stephanie - Feb 02, 2013 7:15:07 am PST #25834 of 30001
Trust my rage

I don't understand? Is there a connection? Or they just want you to be vaccinated?

You've lived fine without it for years, right? I'm guessing the right answer is to vaccinate but in your shoes, I know that for me, 60 days would feel like eternity. You can always get vaccinated after the baby comes, right?


sj - Feb 02, 2013 7:34:54 am PST #25835 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Stephanie, they want me to be vaccinated because of the risk of birth defects ifI were to get chicken pox while pregnant. They tested both of our blood for all types of things.


Stephanie - Feb 02, 2013 8:00:53 am PST #25836 of 30001
Trust my rage

That makes sense, at least. Does 60 days feel like forever?


sj - Feb 02, 2013 8:11:10 am PST #25837 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Yes, it kind of does.


sj - Feb 02, 2013 8:33:32 am PST #25838 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I talked to the nurse about it and she said it is more of a concern if I'm around kids often. I checked with H and G has been immunized, so that is not a concern. But I do spend a lot of time with my niece, who I think is too young to be immunized yet. She starts daycare next week so she may have more of a chance of being exposed to things like chicken pox.


P.M. Marc - Feb 02, 2013 8:36:58 am PST #25839 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

How old is your niece?

I honestly wouldn't bother with it. If you are largely immune, your changes of a flair up are so slim that the cost/benefit doesn't work out.

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Stephanie - Feb 02, 2013 8:39:44 am PST #25840 of 30001
Trust my rage

You know, I personally know that I would probably blow it off. But everyone has a different situation. It seems so unlikely that you would suddenly get chicken pox after years of not but maybe it's good to be really careful? Because you never know...

Infertility totally sucks no matter what.


sj - Feb 02, 2013 8:40:17 am PST #25841 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Plei, she was born in September, so nearly 5 months old.